Husband/Wife hope to meet Bi-Curious Male
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Greetings JohelleP,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
You can try some poly-friendly dating apps/sites, Feeld and OKCupid are well-known in that area. Also it's a good idea to get out there and meet people in person. And you can look for local poly groups near you, google "Tennessee polyamory" and/or "Nashville polyamory" and see what turns up. Good luck! I hope you find the right man for you.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
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There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!
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Welcome aboard!
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
You can try some poly-friendly dating apps/sites, Feeld and OKCupid are well-known in that area. Also it's a good idea to get out there and meet people in person. And you can look for local poly groups near you, google "Tennessee polyamory" and/or "Nashville polyamory" and see what turns up. Good luck! I hope you find the right man for you.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
Notes:
There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!
Please read through the guidelines if you haven't already.
Note: You needn't read every reply to your posts, especially if someone posts in a disagreeable way. Given the size and scope of the site it's hard not to run into the occasional disagreeable person. Please contact the mods if you do (or if you see any spam), and you can block the person if you want.
If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.
Welcome aboard!
My advice is to not expect to both find a partner to "share," unless you just want a short-term fling. You can't expect that the man you are into will also be the man your partner is into.
You might want to read this article:
So, someone called you a Unicorn Hunter?
This article is a long, technical discussion of what being a "Unicorn Hunter" means, what's wrong with it, and how people in such a situation can try to avoid the negative stereotypes associated with such behavior and get the things that they are ultimately looking for. It is written in a…
davidlnoble.livejournal.com
And this:
Triad or V - What's More Complicated?
I get a lot of people new to polyamory insisting that they must date together, or meet people together, because it "will be less complicated." I see this in comments on social media, on dating app profiles, on couple's profiles on social media (that black and red one that starts with an F...
www.readyforpolyamory.com
Also, it sounds like you just want casual sex with a guy, so the male in your dyad can explore his gay side. (But do correct me if I'm wrong.) Casual sex is different from polyamory. Poly-amory means "many loves," not multiple sex partners, or "experimenting with gay sex in a threesome." The articles I've shared address having actual emotional relationships with people. If you want to have casual sex in a threesome, fine, you can do what you want. But often love follows from sex, with the attendant infatuation, cuddling, dating, talking or texting for hours ("all day long") on the phone, etc.
Sometimes initially you're both attracted to the new person, but one of you realizes the connection isn't that strong. Or the new person realizes they are much more attracted to one member of the established couple, and they ignore, or just pretend to care about, the other. This leads to hurt feelings, heartbreak, a real mess.
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