Let me start off by give some back story. I meet this couple online last summer we talked a little bit then my ex wanted to see if things would work better this time. The guy stepped away. After that didn't working out we talked and started dating since January 15. He lives a hour away and just got a new job work 10 hours day all the time for the time being. My schedule since we were looking and just hired someone was working five on one off five on one off with maybe two off in a row once a month. I work nights they work days. Making this harder. There are nights he gets done 3 hours early but he never knows when to it happened. So with me working nights and having a hour drive was hard. About two weeks ago he end it saying he feels bad because I deserve better but with him working 10 hours to they hire someone else and my schedule it wasn't working out. It was hard because he wanted this relationship to be me coming there 50% and them coming down here. I could spend more time with his girl but only a few hours with him here before he sleeps so he can go back to work and seeing him maybe hour to hour and half before work in the morning was not fare to me and stressing him out. He needes the hours and I didn't want to ask him to work less just to see me. He just glad he got a job after what he went thought. After working all those hours I'm sure the last thing he wants to do is come home to have sex. I know he's tired after those hours so we don't do much. I Did ask at one time before break up you looking for are you looking for a Triad and he was yes if things work out like they havee been.
Well two weeks past and he messaged me wanting to see me again. He misses me and wants to see me. He said we be friends to we sit down and talk about some things face to face. I don't know what to do. I always wanted him. That short time he meant more to me then any relationship I had before. I have not stopped thinking about him since we broke up. I wanted this to work out because didn't want to find anyone else they were it for me. I told him how I felt and his response was so you want to be a old married couple with us or like sister wives. He said to think about that's and that's a conversation for another time face to face and he wants to see me soon to talk. Then he left for bed so he could work another 10 hours.
I'm so confused because those three months were hard with our schedule but it won't always be this way. I still feel for him deeply. But who's to say he won't end it again because it gets harder. I don't really know what he means by sister wives? Is that the same thing as a traid or is that different? I just don't know. I really don't want to start dating again it sucks. I just want to call them mine and have him call me his women again.
Well two weeks past and he messaged me wanting to see me again. He misses me and wants to see me. He said we be friends to we sit down and talk about some things face to face. I don't know what to do. I always wanted him. That short time he meant more to me then any relationship I had before. I have not stopped thinking about him since we broke up. I wanted this to work out because didn't want to find anyone else they were it for me. I told him how I felt and his response was so you want to be a old married couple with us or like sister wives. He said to think about that's and that's a conversation for another time face to face and he wants to see me soon to talk. Then he left for bed so he could work another 10 hours.
I'm so confused because those three months were hard with our schedule but it won't always be this way. I still feel for him deeply. But who's to say he won't end it again because it gets harder. I don't really know what he means by sister wives? Is that the same thing as a traid or is that different? I just don't know. I really don't want to start dating again it sucks. I just want to call them mine and have him call me his women again.
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