I figured this might be the best place to clarify my current situation. There's....alot.
Me: Pansexual. Kinky (dominant). I'm...whatever. Non-mono, a variety of which yet to be determined. I'm not sure of the explicit identity. We have multiple kids at home.
W: Husband to me for 5 years. Met while he was in another cohabitating relationship. tl:dr They broke up along the way and we later married. He is also kinky/dominant. Stunt cock for me and T (see below).
F: My former partner. Recently broke it off for lack of connection and my own bandwidth/desire to continue. I didn't see him super often.
T: My close friend since grade school. Began a sexual and closer emotional bond 4 years ago, but we really only engage sexually if W is also involved. Not seen her much during covid first because quarantine and then because differing vaccine choices and her other partnering choices of late.
S1: W's partner of 3 years.
S2: W's partner of 8 months or so. They are talking about her submission to him.
K: W's long term friendship/occasional FWB.
M: W's long term friendship/occasional FWB.
E: My long term/long distance submissive. Mostly consists of texting every few days. Very occasional meetings when we are in close proximity that include sex, intimacy, etc. By occasional I mean it's now been years since we've seen each other.
W may have new very occasional FWB that can sometimes pop up but that are in our friend group.
We operate as a hybrid of kitchen table/parallel with a primary/secondary type organization. We don't do vetoes. Everyone has a voice, but mine and W's kids and life are primary at this point in life and that's explicitly conveyed to everyone we engage. It simply takes a great deal of time and energy to run our household.
Everybody got that? Sweet.
Me: Pansexual. Kinky (dominant). I'm...whatever. Non-mono, a variety of which yet to be determined. I'm not sure of the explicit identity. We have multiple kids at home.
W: Husband to me for 5 years. Met while he was in another cohabitating relationship. tl:dr They broke up along the way and we later married. He is also kinky/dominant. Stunt cock for me and T (see below).
F: My former partner. Recently broke it off for lack of connection and my own bandwidth/desire to continue. I didn't see him super often.
T: My close friend since grade school. Began a sexual and closer emotional bond 4 years ago, but we really only engage sexually if W is also involved. Not seen her much during covid first because quarantine and then because differing vaccine choices and her other partnering choices of late.
S1: W's partner of 3 years.
S2: W's partner of 8 months or so. They are talking about her submission to him.
K: W's long term friendship/occasional FWB.
M: W's long term friendship/occasional FWB.
E: My long term/long distance submissive. Mostly consists of texting every few days. Very occasional meetings when we are in close proximity that include sex, intimacy, etc. By occasional I mean it's now been years since we've seen each other.
W may have new very occasional FWB that can sometimes pop up but that are in our friend group.
We operate as a hybrid of kitchen table/parallel with a primary/secondary type organization. We don't do vetoes. Everyone has a voice, but mine and W's kids and life are primary at this point in life and that's explicitly conveyed to everyone we engage. It simply takes a great deal of time and energy to run our household.
Everybody got that? Sweet.