Hello
MB here.
I just turned 53 and have been married for 23 years.
I had an extramarital encounter a year and a half ago that has changed the way I feel about monogamy. It was exciting and really ignited something inside me that lay dormant for so long. My husband suffers from PTSD and so our relationship was kind of non existent for over 10 years during which time I fell out of love with him but stayed to raise our kids. Now an empty nester, I don’t see myself living a monogamous relationship until I die. So, after being found out the first time I decided to broach the subject of polyamory with him. An idea I was recently given by a co worker. My husband is not sold on the idea, but he’s even less sold on divorce. So right now we are in a don’t ask don’t tell stage.
MB here.
I just turned 53 and have been married for 23 years.
I had an extramarital encounter a year and a half ago that has changed the way I feel about monogamy. It was exciting and really ignited something inside me that lay dormant for so long. My husband suffers from PTSD and so our relationship was kind of non existent for over 10 years during which time I fell out of love with him but stayed to raise our kids. Now an empty nester, I don’t see myself living a monogamous relationship until I die. So, after being found out the first time I decided to broach the subject of polyamory with him. An idea I was recently given by a co worker. My husband is not sold on the idea, but he’s even less sold on divorce. So right now we are in a don’t ask don’t tell stage.
