Is there such a thing…
- Thread starter Roxygirl
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You can emotionally love someone without having sexual feelings for them. You can even feel romantic love for someone without being greatly desirous of having sex with them. It might be you. Maybe you're asexual or greysexual. (Google these terms if necessary.) Or you might think a person is wonderful, and love being in their presence, but you just don't find them sexy, for whatever reason.
It can take time to find someone who is right for you on all levels. Many men just want sex. There are some men who want a full emotional as well as sexual relationship, but it can take years to find one. Patience is key. Don't settle for less.
Openbook23
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Do you mean you haven't found a guy who wants ONLY emotional, or any? Or mostly? I'm male and need emotional connection before I would get sexual with someone. Well, IDK if need is correct, but definitely strongly want. I have never had sex with someone I didn't feel emotions for.
Now, if you mean ONLY emotional (doesn't want sex), such men also exist. They are probably rare, though, yes. But they exist, and you could put that in your profile if you want. Just be careful. As you know, some men will only say that or they will think they can change your mind or whatever.
Now, if you mean ONLY emotional (doesn't want sex), such men also exist. They are probably rare, though, yes. But they exist, and you could put that in your profile if you want. Just be careful. As you know, some men will only say that or they will think they can change your mind or whatever.
Personally, I like to have emotional connections before sex as well. I would like to have more than just emotional connection but emotional connection first would be helpful. I haven’t found guys that want emotional they just want sex.
It’s rare I’ve put in profiles I want emotional and sex but like u said guys lie and say it and I can tell from first few convos or texts it’s just sex for them.
It’s rare I’ve put in profiles I want emotional and sex but like u said guys lie and say it and I can tell from first few convos or texts it’s just sex for them.
Hello Roxygirl,
There is such a thing as emotional-only poly. Poly does not have to include sex. A poly connection is a romantic connection. It does not have to be a sexual connection.
Hopefully you can find a guy who wants an emotional connection.
Regards,
Kevin T.
There is such a thing as emotional-only poly. Poly does not have to include sex. A poly connection is a romantic connection. It does not have to be a sexual connection.
Hopefully you can find a guy who wants an emotional connection.
Regards,
Kevin T.