It's complicated and that's just fine.


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Polyamorous polyromantic demisexual, raised in a very large extended poly family, with many dear and close friends as well. Age 59. Most recent LTR: Widowed three and a half years. My beloved wife of over a decade was monogamous so of course I honored that without complaint, though I was always a bit lonely. I'm just here to make connection to the wider poly community by participating in poly related discussions.


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Greetings Thisandthat,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

Sorry to hear about the passing of your late wife. My own wife passed away in 2013. I'm glad you could join, you can certainly participate in poly-related discussions here and make connections. With the background you have, you will probably be able to help many here who are new to polyamory. Welcome!

Kevin T., "official greeter" :)


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