Journey into polyamory


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Hello. I am new to the site, but I am interested in sharing experiences about the polyamorous life. I am a middle-aged man living in upstate New York with my female partner, and she, with my acquiescence, has taken in a male partner whom we both regard very highly.

Our three-way experience began at a naturist resort, where we had a lot of fun together chatting in various pools. That friendship turned into a situation in which my partner and I have accepted a loving and kind person to share life with.

I have written a narrative describing in three chapters the process from the introduction to the naturist place to where that experience inexorably led.

Would be interested in sharing that with anybody who would like to read it, and would like to hear about your own journey into polyamory.


Hello and welcome.

It’s refreshing when people come with happy stories. (So much drama in poly relationship corner, including mine ;).)

If you want to share your story, or bits of it, publicly, the blog section of the forum would be best suited for that. People do come and read the blogs.

This place is packed with experiences, good and bad. Read around or post questions! Also, try using the search function.
Greetings Kalima1000,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

It sounds like you have an MFM V, where the males are the legs of the V, and the female is the hinge of the V. If this is the case, it is very similar to the setup I have -- also an MFM V. Visit my blog if you want more info (the first two posts in that thread tell the story of how I got started), let me know if you have any questions.

Kevin T., "official greeter" :)


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