Just jumping in

[grndedwife]

Hi everyone.....we are a happily married couple that would like to learn more about and eventually have a long term relationship with another woman. We have been in the swinging lifestyle for many years and have had a great time, but now want more on an emotional level. We are hoping to find a woman who wants to have a relationship with both of us individually and as a couple.

It's not like we can post a personal ad in the paper....so where do we find women who want to date couples.....

As we have been married for more than 16 years and have kids, I would imagine it might be difficult to find someone....we don't think a 20something is what we want....but someone closer to our age and maturity of life.

Any advice?

 

[dingedheart]

hi and welcome,

so where do we find women who want to date couples.....

Canada

 

[kdt26417]

Hi grndedwife,
Welcome to our forum.

I can suggest a couple of links:

http://www.okcupid.com/
http://www.polyamory.com/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=11

Also, you can check and see if there are any local poly groups that meet in your area. Try googling "polyamory" with the name of your state or town.

It may take some time to find just what you're looking for, so prepare to exercise patience. Sometimes just getting out and meeting people and being yourself is the best way to get started.

Best wishes and regards,
Kevin T.