5:19 p.m., Thursday the 14th
We did get coffee, that was a relief. Of course going to the class means coming home late, so, no episodes.
Yesterday, Eddie had a Barn Hunt practice scheduled. The person in charge wasn't going to have a practice that day, but made an exception for Eddie since he was having some struggles. SB was mighty pleased about that, until we arrived and the place was closed up. The driveway was blocked by a gate, which could be opened manually but SB didn't want to presume. So she walked down the (long) driveway while Eddie and I waited in the car. The place was completely closed up, and SB couldn't get to the house to knock on the door because the yard was gated shut, with a couple of big dogs loose in it. SB didn't have the person's phone number and couldn't find it on the web. So we were skunked. Obviously SB wasn't thrilled anymore; whether she comes back to that place depends on what (if any) kind of apology she gets. It takes about an hour to drive there.
Today went rather badly. Lady was meowing and scratching and otherwise hinting that she needed to go, but I know she's scared of Eddie and would have to go past him to get to the litter box. I had the brilliant idea of carrying her to the box. Epic fail. Eddie ran up and leaped to get at her, jaws a-snapping. I tried to kick him away which only encouraged him to do it all the more. To him it was a game, a challenge. I was so mad, explosively mad, I screamed "No" which only threw Lady further into a panic. I now have a big scratch on my wrist, and probably a couple of gouges on the back/top of my head. I got Lady into the litter box (which has a baby gate in front of it for the cats' protection), then had a "talk" with Eddie. For once it was his turn to be scared, but in retrospect I realize that nothing was solved. Next time Lady needs to get to her box (and is too scared to try it on her own), I'll have to get Eddie into his cage. Somehow.
Honestly he's not 100% at fault. I've already been extra stressed lately, this was just the straw that broke the camel's back.
Boy could I use a drink.