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Personally I felt that dingedheart's responses had more to do with his position and personal biases, than anything else. There were bitter notes flavoring them. I have a feeling that there is some stuff going on in his life that has him feeling a bit salty, and it just got expressed there a little bit...which means that you should try not to take it personally. It is impossible for us to know where everyone is at in their lives, when we speak on a forum. You can only try and respectfully say what you want to say and hope the message comes through right.
I swear, some of my own posts...I am often typing early in my morning, during the time while I'm drinking my coffee where I wouldn't ordinarily be trying to talk to other humans. And I don't realize how...frankly, how bitchy...they sound. Until I go back later and see what I wrote and I'm like "oh my god." Usually the point I did want to make is in there, but the delivery is like throwing a brick at somebody. Yikes! I try to soften, even apologize, for those.
I'm way worse about it than you. And I think nycindie is harsher than me, but I also don't think she means to do any harm by it. Human stuff. We do our best. It's all anyone can ask.
I hope you are feeling better.
I swear, some of my own posts...I am often typing early in my morning, during the time while I'm drinking my coffee where I wouldn't ordinarily be trying to talk to other humans. And I don't realize how...frankly, how bitchy...they sound. Until I go back later and see what I wrote and I'm like "oh my god." Usually the point I did want to make is in there, but the delivery is like throwing a brick at somebody. Yikes! I try to soften, even apologize, for those.
I'm way worse about it than you. And I think nycindie is harsher than me, but I also don't think she means to do any harm by it. Human stuff. We do our best. It's all anyone can ask.
I hope you are feeling better.