Brother-Husband did go to work today, but got home early (c. 2:20 p.m.), don't know if that has anything to do with being sick. He's not coughing but when he talks, he sounds rough. I don't think he's exactly better yet.
I'm concerned that maybe my ex-SIL is going to distance herself from me (and my V). She already wasn't getting together with us very often, like, once or twice a year. And wasn't returning Snowbunny's calls. But she (ex-SIL) has apologized about that and explained stuff she's very busy with. And I know she has a new boyfriend, I figure she is spending a lot of time with him which is as it should be.
But, things have lately gotten weird on Facebook. In her last conversation with Snowbunny, ex-SIL seemed to be freaking a little, and saying that everyone was liking her ex-husband's (my brother's) posts, and that no one was liking her posts. Which isn't exactly true, I always like her posts. But my brother posts a lot more often, so maybe that is how she is getting that idea.
But now, there's this big controversy over Colin Kaepernick taking a knee, and I am on Kaepernick's side and ex-SIL is on the opposite side. I'm thinking she's considerably more right-wing than I am, moreso than I had previously realized. So I posted some stuff in favor of Kaepernick, and then she posted a picture of soldiers' coffins (draped in flags) with the caption, "This is why we stand for the anthem, stupid." Oh crikey, if it weren't for the word "stupid," I could have clicked "Like" on that post.
And I'm assuming the timing was coincidental, that she was just posting that at everyone in general. But what if I'm wrong? What if she got pissed about my posts, and was aiming that post of hers directly at me? There isn't much I can do about that. I can't pretend to take her side, I can't even pretend that I don't feel strongly about my side. Is this controversy going to break up the friendship that she and I have had up until now? That's what I'm worried about. And I don't dare try to talk to her about it, I'm afraid that will just fan the flames.
Have any of you had fallings out over this Kaepernick thing? I'm just curious.