LTR help

[Roxygirl]

I’m a wife looking for a LTR Boyfriend. I want and emotional connection and everyday communication, physical attraction. I’ve tried dating sites found a perfect guy then he said he couldn’t date cuz of personal stuff. It was out of nowhere. I’ve talked to several guys all they want r sexy pics then ghost me or say yes to everything I ask and then don’t do it! What am I don’t wrong? Is what I want to much? I’m lost….

 

[kdt26417]

Hello Roxygirl,

Dating websites are notoriously bad at doing what they claim to do: getting you a partner. You will have to kiss a lot of frogs before you can find a prince. Another route you might take is to take a class or join a club, something you are interested in, and make some platonic friends. A friend can someday become more than a friend, also a friend may know someone who might make a good match for you.

I don't blame you for being frustrated.
Sincerely,
Kevin T.

 

[Roxygirl]

Hello Roxygirl,

Dating websites are notoriously bad at doing what they claim to do: getting you a partner. You will have to kiss a lot of frogs before you can find a prince. Another route you might take is to take a class or join a club, something you are interested in, and make some platonic friends. A friend can someday become more than a friend, also a friend may know someone who might make a good match for you.

I don't blame you for being frustrated.
Sincerely,
Kevin T.

Thank you! Unfortunately I live on an island and there are no clubs here for this and also we haven’t told anyone that we have chosen this life style.

 

[Magdlyn]

Thank you! Unfortunately I live on an island and there are no clubs here for this and also we haven’t told anyone that we have chosen this life style.

Kevin means other kinds of clubs. If you have any... alternative... interests, geek things, or nature things, Ren Faires, comix, etc., they tend to attract people who do not hold to rigid monogamous mindsets. You might have to leave the island to find people.