PolyGirl37
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I have been married to my husband for 18 years come May and have been together since high-school. We started to open our marriage about 7 years ago, as we (I),became close to our roommate. At first it was platonic sex and someone to see a movie with while my husband was away (he is a trucker) and also if he desired company while on the road. (Certain areas he goes to and stays a few days every month... I'm not referring to one nighters, though they have happened.)
Suddenly we are in a custody battle for my boyfriends 2 children. Like we are in a very messy and dirty ordeal, as she (boyfriends ex wife) literally just took the kids with no notice. Picked them up for a visit and just refused to bring them home... ... ...but that's not the point here.
My husband and I filled out divorce papers... last night actually, to make me available to marry my boyfriend and in a way, solidify our family. He will be taking my husband'sand my(obviously) name in the marriage instead of me taking his. We have talked about doing this for some time now, but didn't think we would for another year or three.... or whatever, whenever. Point being that now was not our plan.
But with the situation at hand, we expedited our "plans" to now, for our children.
I was wondering if anyone else had experience with anything like this. The marriage part of it, not so much the custody battle...
Suddenly we are in a custody battle for my boyfriends 2 children. Like we are in a very messy and dirty ordeal, as she (boyfriends ex wife) literally just took the kids with no notice. Picked them up for a visit and just refused to bring them home... ... ...but that's not the point here.
My husband and I filled out divorce papers... last night actually, to make me available to marry my boyfriend and in a way, solidify our family. He will be taking my husband'sand my(obviously) name in the marriage instead of me taking his. We have talked about doing this for some time now, but didn't think we would for another year or three.... or whatever, whenever. Point being that now was not our plan.
But with the situation at hand, we expedited our "plans" to now, for our children.
I was wondering if anyone else had experience with anything like this. The marriage part of it, not so much the custody battle...