mono-poly relationships, double standards, and jealousy

I thought "sex work/er" was the proper and respectful terminology of this decade. It used to be the word "prostitute" that was the respectful non-pejorative terminology in the 1970s when I was a little kid and my mother explained what that meant. Now that word is considered "slurry" and people want to do the same thing to the word(s) that were designated by the SJWs to replace them.
 
In the UK, prostitute has always been a pejorative word. It's why UK police forces have to use the term sex workers now... in public. at least. Prostitute was seen (quite rightly) as demeaning and derogatory and led to people being seen as 'less than.' FWIW, the people I know who work(ed) use the term sex work and identify as sex workers.
 
In the UK, prostitute has always been a pejorative word. It's why UK police forces have to use the term sex workers now... in public. at least. Prostitute was seen (quite rightly) as demeaning and derogatory and led to people being seen as 'less than.' FWIW, the people I know who work(ed) use the term sex work and identify as sex workers.
I don't think prostitute was "always" considered offensive. Before the 1970s the words whore and hooker were replaced more and more by prostitute, to be more polite. The term sex worker is pretty modern. The use of escort for sex worker (and not just someone to bring to a corporate event or wedding) is also seen more often.

(Then, even older archaic words have a certain charm. Tart, strumpet, harlot, wanton, trollop, wench...)
 
I don't think prostitute was "always" considered offensive. Before the 1970s the words whore and hooker were replaced more and more by prostitute, to be more polite. The term sex worker is pretty modern. The use of escort for sex worker (and not just someone to bring to a corporate event or wedding) is also seen more often.

(Then, even older archaic words have a certain charm. Tart, strumpet, harlot, wanton, trollop, wench...)
I take your point, however, 'prostitute' was never polite and was used in the UK much earlier than the 1970s, apparently used here since the 1500s here. It has only been very recently replaced with sex worker which gives the recognition that people in sex work are actual workers. Which they are
 
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I take your point, however, 'prostitute' was never polite and was used in the UK much earlier than the 1970s, apparently used here since the 1500s here. It has only been very recently replaced with sex worker which gives the recognition that people in sex work are actual workers. Which they are
The use of prostitute is very common in scholarly circles. In fact, when the Hebrew Bible is translated into English, the Hebrew word "holy ones," qudesha, used to denote the sacred representatives of various goddesses, who blessed men by having sex with them in the temples devoted to Asherah, Astarte, Inanna, etc., is to this day, (grossly) translated as "temple prostitutes," instead of as the literal translation of "holy ones." It makes me ill. Worse, the word for male temple sex workers, qudeshim, is translated sometimes as "dogs."

The biblical translation scholars do include people from England.
 
Prostitute was matter of fact in NZ in the 1990s/2000s, not offensive. Whore was the pejorative. Sex worker didn't exist. Escort was probably the most polite term.
 
Prostitute was matter of fact in NZ in the 1990s/2000s, not offensive. Whore was the pejorative. Sex worker didn't exist. Escort was probably the most polite term.
"Escort" was the one they used in the classified ads because "sex work" was (and still is) illegal here in Butt Hurt, OW. Nowadays with the internet, "escort" has given way to "adult companion" and similar expressions.
 
I don't think prostitute was "always" considered offensive. Before the 1970s the words whore and hooker were replaced more and more by prostitute, to be more polite. The term sex worker is pretty modern. The use of escort for sex worker (and not just someone to bring to a corporate event or wedding) is also seen more often.

(Then, even older archaic words have a certain charm. Tart, strumpet, harlot, wanton, trollop, wench...)
The word trollop is by far my favorite. The way it bounces around the tongue and smacks the lips is so in line with the meaning of the word.

I love that I've stumbled onto a post that has evolved into exploring the etymology of "sex worker"! I'm so glad that I stopped by.
 
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