AcreoCrimsonstar
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I'll try my best to keep this short cause its a long story.
Significant other isnt talking. Not really.
He also isnt showing affection and pulls away when I try to touch him.
Thats the jist of it.
This afternoon, he got home and started fiddling with his new tech stuff he got in the mail. Barely said anything. Didnt even know he was back.
I've done yard work for him and he said he'd pay me. I asked for help with a bill yesterday but the system was down.
Today I checked and it was working. He was still working on his Ipod modification and seemed frustrated or something and didn't say a word. He threw his debit card on my desk and continued working. I said thank you and he said nothing. I took care of the bill and gave him the card, saying thank you again. He said nothing.
I went to the restroom and the door slammed. Ithought it was our 3rd coming back from his meeting at college.
I returned to the room and saw nobody was in the house, so I thought He went outside to test his thing in his car. I sat at the computer, filled out a job application and after a while realized he was actually gone. He left without saying anything. I got fed up with this and I left. Granted I am asking myself "am I crazy?" "Am I overreacting?" But this is an ongoing issue that I tried to talk with him about and back when I did, he just sighed and kept scrolling through his phone. Its weeks later and I still feel very disconnected from him. Its throwing my being out of whack and this is unhealthy for me. I dont wanna turn resentful or anything but I just keep getting the feeling he doesnt want to continue the relationship. He wont talk if I try.
Now there's more that has happened between us and that changed our relationship. I have apologized to him when I tried to have a deep talk but as I mentioned, he scrolled in his phone and changed the subject.
Is it time for me to move on or take yet another step back? I just started coming back around after taking weeks off from them both. Things havent been the same. He doesnt love me the way he used to. I try to show him that I still do but he's cut himself off. I feel this is my fault and like I ruin everything I touch.
Significant other isnt talking. Not really.
He also isnt showing affection and pulls away when I try to touch him.
Thats the jist of it.
This afternoon, he got home and started fiddling with his new tech stuff he got in the mail. Barely said anything. Didnt even know he was back.
I've done yard work for him and he said he'd pay me. I asked for help with a bill yesterday but the system was down.
Today I checked and it was working. He was still working on his Ipod modification and seemed frustrated or something and didn't say a word. He threw his debit card on my desk and continued working. I said thank you and he said nothing. I took care of the bill and gave him the card, saying thank you again. He said nothing.
I went to the restroom and the door slammed. Ithought it was our 3rd coming back from his meeting at college.
I returned to the room and saw nobody was in the house, so I thought He went outside to test his thing in his car. I sat at the computer, filled out a job application and after a while realized he was actually gone. He left without saying anything. I got fed up with this and I left. Granted I am asking myself "am I crazy?" "Am I overreacting?" But this is an ongoing issue that I tried to talk with him about and back when I did, he just sighed and kept scrolling through his phone. Its weeks later and I still feel very disconnected from him. Its throwing my being out of whack and this is unhealthy for me. I dont wanna turn resentful or anything but I just keep getting the feeling he doesnt want to continue the relationship. He wont talk if I try.
Now there's more that has happened between us and that changed our relationship. I have apologized to him when I tried to have a deep talk but as I mentioned, he scrolled in his phone and changed the subject.
Is it time for me to move on or take yet another step back? I just started coming back around after taking weeks off from them both. Things havent been the same. He doesnt love me the way he used to. I try to show him that I still do but he's cut himself off. I feel this is my fault and like I ruin everything I touch.