Nesting Partner Tips?

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Noyse

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Me and my Primary (Connie if you're gonna look through post history) have signed a lease! This is kinda surreal for someone who got into poly while single. I've never lived with a partner before, and I was wondering ya'll had some insight that I might not find on google.

I will say that we have our own bedrooms, so bed sharing with overnights won't be an issue.
 
SEASONEDpolyAgain said:
Remember to schedule your quality time rather than getting into the habit of thinking as time you are both in the home as your shared time.
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I definitely second this!

I live with both my partners and a lot of stress and tension can build up when you just expect the time your spending together to count as quality time spent together. Its super important to still plan dates and fun things to do, even something as simple as sitting down and watching a tv show together and letting that be your thing :)
 
Hi Noyse,

Congratulations on your new lease, I think it's wise that you got separate bedrooms. If you're like me, you need your privacy, I even have my own attached bathroom. I guess my main tip would be, never assume anything, always get/give confirmation. Communication is so important in any relationship, but especially in a nesting relationship. Don't just eat your Cheerios together. Talk together. Talk about your plans, needs, preferences, etc.

And, keep us posted as your situation evolves.
Regards,
Kevin T.
 
If you can, hire a cleaner once a week.
 
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