New, excited, nervous, married 51M in Virginia

[Vlovers507]

Newly entered ENM with my wife of over 20 years. What started as sexual exploitation for her quickly morphed into her having a boyfriend. Our married sex life has been PHENOMENAL since that has begun.

But now time for me to enter the scary world of finding a friend for me to spend some time with. Truly I don’t think “poly” describes me. I always said “I love you” early in relationships but truly feel that I reserve that for my wife (though she has poly feelings for her bf).

But I am a truly affectionate and caring person so I’d love to find a “special friend” in the northern Virginia area between DC and Richmond.

I don’t expect this will be easy…

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings Vlovers507,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

It sounds like your wife is poly, you are more just looking for a special friend (FWB?). I hope Polyamory.com is somewhat helpful in that regard, we're not much of a dating site, but you can certainly meet people here and make friends. Let me know if I can help!

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

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