Hello all! I’m Ang. I’m 41 married woman to a man that’s 42 that came out a 2 years ago as bisexual after being married for 20 years. We decided to open our marriage….well I’m the idiot to fall in love with his then boyfriend. Well needless to say we now have been together and classier ourselves as a married trio. We are completely in love but of course have our moments like any other marriages. We struggle because of our third has not came out to anyone minus his mother and his sister….and his age, he’s a few years younger than us, and doesn’t have kids but we do and he classifies our children as his two, and our one daughter is about to have a baby and he’s thrilled to be a grandparent as well….I think keeping our home life basically a secret from his family and hush hush for all on social media and don’t really hold hands and show much affection in public like I wish we did….how do you all overcome challenges and make friends in the same situation?
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Greetings Ang,
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It sounds like you have a really sweet triad, that is a rare thing even in poly so treasure it. Lots of polyamorists have to keep their polyness in the closet, I don't know whether your third has to or if it is just his preference, it is hard to get used to missing out on PDA's, it takes quite a few years, but you do get used to it eventually. Hang in there, and let me know if I can help.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
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Welcome aboard!
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
It sounds like you have a really sweet triad, that is a rare thing even in poly so treasure it. Lots of polyamorists have to keep their polyness in the closet, I don't know whether your third has to or if it is just his preference, it is hard to get used to missing out on PDA's, it takes quite a few years, but you do get used to it eventually. Hang in there, and let me know if I can help.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
Notes:
There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!
Please read through the guidelines if you haven't already.
Note: You needn't read every reply to your posts, especially if someone posts in a disagreeable way. Given the size and scope of the site it's hard not to run into the occasional disagreeable person. Please contact the mods if you do (or if you see any spam), and you can block the person if you want.
If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.
Welcome aboard!