New mono/poly dynamic

[ShadowBloom]

I'm new here and just beginning to explore polyamory in a more intentional way. I'm a woman in my 40s, recently rekindled a relationship with someone I love deeply and have been through a lot with over the last two years. We're now trying to navigate a nontraditional dynamic together. He has another partner, that he met while we were separated that he is continuing to see, and while this is new territory for me, I'm trying to stay open, honest, and grounded as I learn.

Looking forward to connecting and learning from this community—appreciate the space to explore and grow.

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings ShadowBloom,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

I had a look at your other thread, and responded there briefly. To summarize, you are being treated both equally and unfairly. You have to figure out if this is the kind of mono/poly dynamic you want. I hope our input helps.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

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