Was really just curious on how to find a good safe male 3rd wheel to join my wife and I in a casual sexual encounter? I am not gay or bi, we are just looking for another male to do a 3 way on her!!? If there's any suggestions or anyone interested plz hmu.... Thanks
You don't seem to be here looking for partners, per se, but you do seem to be seeking casual sex, whereas this is a board for polyamory, that is: multiple loving romantic adult relationships, practiced with the knowledge and joyful consent of all.
Polyamory does not imply group sex. Usually polyamorists date one-on-one.
If you want casual threeway sex, you'd be better off looking on apps or sites dedicated to swinging.
If you do find other sex partners, and any of you do fall in love, then you can come back here and find out how to negotiate changing from swinging to polyamory.
You might want to try Feeld, OKCupid, or FetLife, to aid you in your search. I hope you find the right male for you, and have an awesome time with him.