inescarvalho
New member
Hello everyone,
I just made my registration today. I joined in because me and my longterm partner have been opening up our relationship and it isn't going very well for me so far. I still get very confused and it has been quite a painful journey. It has lead me to question the entire relationship and if I really want to be with this person at all, even though I love them so much. It gets very heavy for me. I don't know how to deal with this and what I need is good advice. Because I sure don't feel monogamous but I am also failing to accept free love. I do accept it in theory, but when it comes to the little details of the everyday I just can't deal with it. My life is already very intense and it hasn't been a bed of roses for the past 2 years or so. I guess it only made it a lot harder that otherwise it would have been.
That being said, I'd like to ask you for some good beginners advice and more importantly: your insights on how to deal with jealousy and insecurity, because those have led me to being unable to be with anyone else other than my partner, for I don't want to bring that kind of toxicity into a new relatioship.
Thank you for your time,
Wishing you all a great weekend
Inês
I just made my registration today. I joined in because me and my longterm partner have been opening up our relationship and it isn't going very well for me so far. I still get very confused and it has been quite a painful journey. It has lead me to question the entire relationship and if I really want to be with this person at all, even though I love them so much. It gets very heavy for me. I don't know how to deal with this and what I need is good advice. Because I sure don't feel monogamous but I am also failing to accept free love. I do accept it in theory, but when it comes to the little details of the everyday I just can't deal with it. My life is already very intense and it hasn't been a bed of roses for the past 2 years or so. I guess it only made it a lot harder that otherwise it would have been.
That being said, I'd like to ask you for some good beginners advice and more importantly: your insights on how to deal with jealousy and insecurity, because those have led me to being unable to be with anyone else other than my partner, for I don't want to bring that kind of toxicity into a new relatioship.
Thank you for your time,
Wishing you all a great weekend
Inês