Greetings NatashaMari3,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
I would recommend you start by reading
Poly FAQ. Then read the book, "
Opening Up: a guide to creating and sustaining open relationships," by Tristan Taormino. Finally, immerse yourself in the boards and threads of this forum. See what questions those raise for you, and post those questions. Polyamory is a highly complex relationship model; it takes quite awhile to learn how to navigate it.
There are two especially important things you need to keep in mind, about polyamory, from the very beginning. First, all poly relationships must be done with the knowledge and consent of all within the relationship web. Without consent, there is no poly. Second, transparent communication is vital, quality and quantity. Never assume you're on the same page, get confirmation from all of your partners. I'd say 90% of the problems that arise in polyamory are the result of miscommunications.
Start with the above, and take it from there.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
Notes:
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*lot* of good info in
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Welcome aboard!