New to this. Interested in Triad Poly FMF. I don't know where to start... 🇵🇭 help??? 😅

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JoanneK

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I've always been in a monogamous relationship with a guy. It never last long because, honestly, I've never felt fully satisfied with the relationship and never understood why. I've come across polymorous discussions, shows, movies, interviews... and something clicked in my head. I got excited in the idea of it. I've been single for 2 years just because I'm not really in the mood to be in a relationship, dates and casual things.. sure! But not a serious relationship. But upon knowing the possibility of poly... I got excited again in being in a serious relationship! I'm looking for a Triad poly just because I wouldn't know how to handle being more than that, but let's see where life takes me 😊 for now.... where do I start???
 
You start by being upfront and telling any prospective dating partners that you are interested in only ethical non-monogamy, not being monogamous. Then you hopefully end up with 2 or more bfs who know that you are dating/in a relationship with more than one guy.

Try reading Bluebird's blog in our Journal section.
 
Greetings JoanneK,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

There is a book I want to recommend to you, it is called, "Opening Up: a guide to creating and sustaining open relationships," by Tristan Taormino. It is not hard to read, and it gives you a good idea of the many possibilities. Right now it sounds like you're looking for a triad with two bi females and one straight male. Correct me if I am reading that wrong. Anyway, I'm glad you could join us, and hope you'll keep posting here.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

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Welcome to the forum!


@kdt26417 always gives good places to start. I would also add this:
www.multiamory.com

Start Here — Multiamory

www.multiamory.com www.multiamory.com


It is a podcast covering all sorts of topics in polyamory. It's nice to listen to at night or when you are cleaning house or whatever.

I would also take your time and do a ton of research and introspection. That's never a bad thing because I personally would rather people do that than to poly in haste, repent at leisure.

Good luck! :)
 
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