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Neon, you were being sarcastic. Why? How could this thread possibly offend you? Is this something they teach at mod school? The first person to respond wants to make some veiled personal attack... Nice.

Sagency, thank you for your comments. I too believe in forgiveness and redemption.

RP, the poly question, I've asked that same question several times on here. Maybe focus.

It's very true, in the early aftermath, I had a wide range of emotions surrounding this situation... hurt, anger, betrayal. Hard to process when the other party takes off and hides in another state and dumps the clean-up on you. So... yeah. I was pissed. Also, it is unfortunate when I post here I don't do several drafts, think about it for days. It's mostly as the thoughts happen, like a conversation. Do all the nuances get expressed, all the right words get used? No.

NYCindie, the queen of the quote function, please find she's the mother of my kids thinking. Oh yeah, I'm not thinking that. I actually prefer to leave my kids out of this.

I think money is your issue. Go check the record. I brought it up talking about rejecting primary status.

Got to go.
 
dingedheart said:
The poly question, I've asked that same question several times on here. Maybe focus?
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"Maybe focus?" Is it I who should focus? Last I heard, you weren't sure if you were or were not poly. It seems like it's not my thing to focus on, really. Good luck figuring it out.

To me, you are dating. I don't know if these women know each other or not. That would indicate to me if you are poly-dating, and choosing the "lifestyle" due to circumstances, or whether you are actually realizing you identify as poly, as you do being heterosexual (assuming here).
 
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