Not new to Poly but it always feels that way

Hi Neil,

I think your plan/idea is worth a shot at least. First you'd have to run it by her to see if she likes it. Then I suppose she would have to run it by her current boyfriend. I can't tell how territorial he is, but I assume he's at least steeped in monogamy and monogamous doctrine.

Just a thought,
Kevin T.
 
Bottom line , if she wants to spend more time together , we can .. things are only relevant based on what she and I want .. its a basic premise of friendship. In my view monogamous relationships got hijacked by the nature of business and territory and misogynist male attitudes
 
I'd like to suggest you pick nicknames for your partners and metas. I'm like a broken record here constantly suggesting this to new members lol But it really helps in the comprehension of conversations about complicated issues.

Your F partner of 33 years-- [name]
Her bf, your meta-- [name]
Your F partner of 9 years-- [name]
Your M partner-- [name]
Your F partner/ex of 1 year-- [name]
Her bf, your meta-- [name]
 
Magdlyn said:
I'd like to suggest you pick nicknames for your partners and metas. I'm like a broken record here constantly suggesting this to new members lol But it really helps in the comprehension of conversations about complicated issues.

Your F partner of 33 years-- Hilary
Her bf, your meta-- Larry
Your F partner of 9 years-- Diana
Your M partner-- Dave
Your F partner/ex of 1 year-- Ingela
Her bf, your meta-- Don
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Thanks Magdlyn great idea

And Diana has never had a Bf in these 8.5 years I've been with her ..so easy :)

I woke up this morning feeling like ' why try to push things in any particular direction with Ingela ? ' She texted me after 10 days because she misses me and invited me out to dinner. She still has the hots for me I can tell . So I may just bide my time and see what happens. That's as interesting as anything perhaps

I remember feeling a bit terrified when it came out that Hilary had met Larry 10 years ago and these days it's no big deal . Let the story play out Neil 😉
 
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