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Disneydean

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Hi. I used to be in a Poly relationship when I was in my late 30's. Now I am almost 55 and realized, that I still want that. I cannot get what I need, nor do I feel like I have so little love as to only give it to one person. However, I feel like my window for finding a relationship, even dating people who may feel the same, is passing me by. Are there any resources for people who are looking for other people who are over 50? Just curious...Thanks
 
Never old for dating. My grandma reconnected with her old love in their 70's :)
 
Disneydean said:
Hi. I used to be in a Poly relationship when I was in my late 30's. Now I am almost 55 and realized, that I still want that. I cannot get what I need, nor do I feel like I have so little love as to only give it to one person. However, I feel like my window for finding a relationship, even dating people who may feel the same, is passing me by. Are there any resources for people who are looking for other people who are over 50? Just curious...Thanks
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Hi. I see from another post of yours that you're a woman in your 50s. I officially separated from my husband, a mono marriage, at age 53, divorcing a few years later. I am now 70 and I've had no problem finding dates and partners. I am open-minded about age. I find some younger men (and women, I'm queer) of younger ages are more mature and/or compatible with me as people my own age or older. So I recommend being open-minded.

I used to to the OK Cupid dating site when I first started dating, but it's not as good as it used to be. Nowadays some poly people find more luck on Feeld.
 
Hello Disneydean,

Don't give up, try a couple of poly-friendly dating sites/apps. Feeld and OKCupid are two that I know of. Also you can search for poly meetups in your area. Google "North Carolina polyamory," "North Carolina ENM," or polyamory or ENM with the name of your nearest major city. Finally, any way you can get out there and make friends, clubs, classes, or fringe events such as indie concerts, Ren Faires, sci-fi cons, BDSM munches, or what have you. Age is just a number, if you believe in yourself, you can find those special someones.

Regards,
Kevin T.
 
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