Philly area couple starting out...please be nice

Good day...We are a couple from the Philly area in our 40s...she younger sude, him older side. We are specifically looking to meet another woman to see where it can go. We have very open and candid discussions about steps we feel we need to take to make this work. We are very discreet due to our jobs and our children. We are not looking for perfect. We prefer someone smart, who has experience. Look forward to meeting and talking to everyone.


If you're looking for discreet fun in threesome style sex, I'd suggest a swinger site.

If you're looking for a woman to take an equal interest in both of you for a relationship and then follow your (couple) stipulations on how your (couple) relationship with her can evolve so as to maintain an outward appearance of being just a friend, then you might want to rethink your goals.

Best wishes in your learning.


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Greetings buckscountybeachbums,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

It sounds like you are looking for an M/F+F triad, where the added female will pose as a friend, while having sexual relations with the two of you. This is a perfectly valid objective, just make sure it is based on knowledge and consent. It may take awhile to find the right person for you; in the meantime I would encourage you to spend some time exploring this site. There's a lot to learn.

Good luck in your search!
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)


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