Aww, thanks, hon!I added a temporary profile pic to help you out
Aww, thanks, hon!I added a temporary profile pic to help you out
Fetlife is the motherlode of poly kinksters. You can start getting a feel for the community by joining a few groups, easily found in the search. Enjoy!Think really of Fetish and poly as some overlap but different relationships types
It is interesting because I have considered joining Fetlife for kink partner reason but never really through of it as a good place to find general poly partners. Think really of Fetish and poly as some overlap but different relationships types
No, polyamory isn't a fetish, per se. It's just that people who take the trouble to search their souls and come to terms with their kinks/fetishes are often open-minded enough to also explore forms of open relationships, whether for kinky play-partners, sex partners, or full on lovers/partners/spouses.I've always felt that way about the recommendation to find non-monogamous folk on a fetish site. It is likely that I am missing some context, but on the face it's a strange thing to conflate non-monogamy with a sex fetish. To me, those things couldn't have less to do with each other.
I think it's the same reason that (and maybe this is just my experience) there seems to be a lot more people who have left controlling religions (raised extremely observant Seventh Day Adventist, for instance, or child of fundie missionaries, or or or...) in my poly circles than in the world in general. Leaving that sort of religion takes a re-examination of everything you think you know about the world, and at that point mandatory monogamy is a pretty obvious thing to also fall under the microscope.No, polyamory isn't a fetish, per se. It's just that people who take the trouble to search their souls and come to terms with their kinks/fetishes are often open-minded enough to also explore forms of open relationships, whether for kinky play-partners, sex partners, or full on lovers/partners/spouses.
So, I ran across this thread this morning, and later today I ran across this kickstarter. Why I thought of you, I don't know...I "like" people's photos, and just the act of my doing that is seen by people, who may also have looked at that pic, and then they might feel a connection just from that, and message me. For example, I follow a person who posts a lot of vintage erotic photos. So others who also enjoy that vintage stuff might become interested in me.
I'll have to post a picture of the decor in my room once it's all up - I have one set of 4 20's and 30's B&W female nudes framed together and it looks amazing. Not that this is relevant to the original post, but I'm working on some of the other bits of art right now and saw this in the thread.I "like" people's photos, and just the act of my doing that is seen by people, who may also have looked at that pic, and then they might feel a connection just from that, and message me. For example, I follow a person who posts a lot of vintage erotic photos. So others who also enjoy that vintage stuff might become interested in me.