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UnicornLove

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I've made a secret FB group (which means nobody will be able to see if you joined the group) that's for polyamorous people. Network. Meet new people. Anything! If you're interested, send me a friend request so I can add you on in = )

My profile name is Jay Brit and I have 2 blue hearts as a profile pic. If you can't find me, direct message me and I'll send the link.

The individuals in the group so far as Awesome! You'll love it!
 
I'm sure it's a great group and I love your contribution to networking the poly community, but "Facebook" and "secret" just do not go together in my mind. I would not post or participate in anything on Facebook that I don't assume will go out to the entire world - forever. I'm not even a very private person and I keep anything "secret" off of Facebook. Just feedback in case you wonder why people may be reluctant to join up.
 
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A lot of us here already belong to a closed Poly Group on FB that was started by Redpepper a couple years ago. I rarely visit it but as far as I know, it's pretty active with lots of members, including Franklin Veaux. Google around this site and there might be some info about it. PM Redpepper for an invitation. I joined it using a different account from my personal one, so I login with an alias and not my real name.
 
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Secret groups are secret. I belong to a local Seattle one. I would say more but then I'd have to kill you :D. I don't care who knows about my poly. For those that are concerned, I would hesitate to join something that is nationwide. There is no real accountability to keep things secret if a member gets pissed off at another member. There is no vetting process like there is with my local group.
 
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Secret groups are secret. I belong to a local Seattle one. I would say more but then I'd have to kill you :D. I don't care who knows about my poly. For those that are concerned, I would hesitate to join something that is nationwide. There is no real accountability to keep things secret if a member gets pissed off at another member. There is no vetting process like there is with my local group.
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Oh no it's completely ok! But yes, the group is indeed secret. You aren't even able to search for the group unless you're a member of it. I've had some "concern" members at one point in time, but they've been pretty happy with the outcome so far.
 
I think I got kicked off the Seattle group for blocking the mods. The mods were bombarding me with invites to poly events all over the Northwest, and I just didn't want to deal with that. Sorry ...
 
Hey everyone. I do facilitate a secret FB group. (Thanks, NYCindie. :)) So far, it has been a sane and peaceful group that is enjoyed by many members here. Usually people post articles they have read and want to share, dilemmas and details about their lives, or they ask questions and ponder poly and relationship questions. It is my personal belief and experience that all relationships can benefit from the poly model, but that we don't always feel the poly feels all our lives, in terms of romantic relationships. So I don't advocate for a poly-only format on the group. Anyone who wants to talk about relationship dynamics is welcome. If this is of interest, then please message me. I would be happy to tell you more and contemplate whether or not you would like to be added to the group. I don't get here often, so please be patient with me, as I might not see your PM right away.
 
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