Poly vs. lifestyle flexibility, your experience with change

[Tinwen]

Yes, there was more to be gained than lost. My wife was still alive and with us when we moved away from Michigan. And her kids were so opposed to that marriage (and to me in general) that it was actually dangerous for us to stay in Michigan. And there were other reasons for us to move, such as just wanting to move to New Mexico (where Snowbunny had lived for a number of years).

I think you're trying to make it more complicated than it actually is. The three of us wanted to move and be together. That's really all that was needed.

Thank you, Kevin. My questioning is not a distrust of your words. One could say that change being/feeling easy is a foreign experience to me So I'm just trying to understand the context.

 

[kdt26417]

No problem, the three of us are just lucky to be in alignment when it comes to moving (and other things).