Well for context. We take our anniversary off every year and spend the day together. This year is the first time she's had a partner on the date so we talked agreed to not contact partners for the day. So I told the woman I've been talking to "hey my anniversary is tommorow I'll talk to you the next day. Please let us be unless it's an emergency " but she feels like that's asking to much. Or when we go on a date and the second we come in the door. Like I didn't know a date was over because we come inside our house. So probably just a me problem. Sorry for wasting yalls time.