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Jaceandtiffany

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Hello everyone. We are a married couple with some past experiences fooling around mfm. I’m 35 she’s 34. We enjoyed it a lot good times lots of laughs and fun. It ended up not being a permanent situation like we had hoped. on the “hunt” i suppose. endless messages being ignored or people looking for an easy ride. Somewhere out there is another man who would give the world to my partner like I do or better. We’ve been together for ten years, I feel comfortable in our relationship and in my own skin. Questions? Just ask. maybe document the process. Something to look back on if it works out.

I would rather try and fail than never having tried.
 
Hi and welcome. :)

It sounds like you have had one casual MFM relationship, where there was threeway sex, and friendship, but not true love between you and the guy, or your wife and the other guy. How long did the relationship last? How long ago did it end?

It also sounds like you want another man to come along who will love your wife, and also be into threeway sex with both her and you. Is that right?

You want something serious to develop, but men you/your wife talk to just want to maybe fuck her casually, or are maybe not into threeway MFM sex, and are not seeking any kind of serious relationship with a married woman?

You are asking for a lot-- MFM threeway sex, a serious relationship, a guy wanting to hang out with you as a friend (or lover, if you're bisexual), a man who will give your wife the world, long term, maybe permanently.

BTW, I am moving this thread to the Poly Relationships section as you seem to want feedback and you're more likely to get it there than in Intros.
 
Hello Jaceandtiffany,

It sounds like you're hitting some road blocks in your search for another man to be in an MFM V with you. My experience has been that it's always hard to find love, especially when looking for it in a poly context. So don't give up hope any too easily, search with patience and eventually you will find the right man for you. I wonder if there is a poly meetup group somewhere in your vicinity? You might try googling "ENM" or "polyamory" with the name of your state or nearest major city. Also you might try making platonic friends in various meatspace events, hobbies, classes, or even fringe events such as indie concerts, Ren faires, BDSM munches, sci-fi cons, etc.

Just some ideas,
Kevin T.
 
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