She went on her 1st date

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mygfwantstodate

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Hello. Everyone. Just wanted to give an update. I'm new to this and my GF has always wanted to do this for so long. Well, her 1st date with another man happened on Saturday evening. She was talking to this guy and they wanted to go out in the evening. So Saturday afternoon I went to the mall with her. She wanted to get a whole new outfit to wear. She got this low cut top and these leggings, even these lacey black panties. I even paid for it all. Then later she got ready. She took a while getting ready, but the whole time she looked so so happy. I knew they were going to dinner then to this arcade to play games and indoor mini golf. Then after that she was not so sure. Then she left with him and I wasn't sure how I'd react, but I will admit I had a whole range of emotions going through me during that time. She left a message when she got there (even though I promised not to have any contact while she was on her dates). Later on in the night she called me real quick to let me know she wasn't going to be back home til the morning.
 
Hi, did you mean to add this update in the blog section, or to add it to your original thread, for more context?

This is a section meant for more or less personal journaling. I suggest you post this update in your original thread, or at least add a link to it.
 
Hi mygfwantstodate,

Thanks for updating us on your situation. It sounds like your girlfriend had a great time with this other fellow. Good for you for supporting her in this, you are putting her wants and needs first. You may be in a cuckold situation, which is totally cool, we get lots of that here. I hope you'll continue to update us on your situation, I'd be interested to know what you want in this situation.

Sincerely,
Kevin T.
 
kdt26417 said:
You may be in a cuckold situation, which is totally cool, we get lots of that here.
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Do you have a different definition of cuckold in the US, Kevin? Here in the UK the dictionary defines it as “a man whose wife is sexually unfaithful, regarded as an object of derision” - which is NOT the OP at all!

@mygfwantstodate has agreed to support his partner on her polyamorous journey, and I think that commands respect.
 
I don't at all mean to disrespect mygfwantstodate, I reference the term cuckold in the sense of putting his girlfriend's wants and needs first -- and that is a maybe, based on his posts so far. He is being very generous and gracious toward his girlfriend, and I think he deserves kudos for that.
 
In modern terms, cuckolding is a fetish/kink wherein a husband gets pleasure, and often sexual arousal, from aiding his wife in having sex with other men. The fact that he took her shopping for "sexy" clothes for her first date with another guy, and paid for them, and then watched her get ready, makes him sound like some cuckold fetishists.
 
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