Oh, you guys I had such a nice weekend. Franki came up on Saturday around noon and left Sunday late afternoon. We spent all afternoon painting and then we went out to dinner at Longhorn Steakhouse that evening. When we got back we spent a little bit of time in the art studio, because I wanted to make B some coasters, and then we watched four episodes of "The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel." I've seen both seasons already, but Franki asked if I had seen it, and that her son had offered his Prime account login so she could watch it, but that she hadn't done it yet. She loved it and didn't want to stop. I bet she asks her son for his Prime login now!
Bond fed his boys dinner and then went to B's. He unintentionally imbibed too heavily with edibles and ended up spending the night. I was so happy for him. He has been yearning for time with B and connection, so this was a really good thing.
Franki and I shared the guest bed in case Bond came home in the night. It took me a long time to fall asleep, but according to my Fitbit, I slept pretty solidly after that. I woke around 7 pm and couldn't stay in bed much past 7:30. I was worried that I'd wake Franki if I got out of bed, but she slept through me leaving the room and she didn't join me upstairs for another hour. We were sitting in the kitchen drinking coffee when Bond got home. He looked great, like a huge burden had been lifted and I feel so happy for him.
I should back up and tell you about the angst he's been feeling related to B and the shitty behavior she's been displaying. Um, she's been quite distant and won't book dates with him. When it's our Tuesday triad date night or when we hang out everything seems good, but the communication and responses have really been poor when things are happening via text. Friday night she stopped by after she went out for a fish fry with a couple of friends. I was super duper tired, so I wasn't capable of being smooth and I straight up told her that not getting back to Bond for five days and then telling him he's being needy when he follows up (because the night he asked about is the next day) isn't fair. Questioning also revealed that she no longer wants to have sleepovers. Okay, now we know. So, it's really ironic that the very next night Bond ended up sleeping over. She fed him a pot cookie that totally kicked his butt and he couldn't keep his eyes open and couldn't drive.
She and her kids were over for part of the day yesterday, and another friend, Ruby, also came over. We finished Ruby's coasters and she made a painting, and B's daughter also made a painting and two coasters - which turned out amazing! I love how kids do art!
Last night Bond and I cuddled on the couch and watched some episodes of "The Defenders" and that felt really nice.
Tonight we are making stuffed mushrooms and watching two movies: "Life Itself" and "The Spy Who Dumped Me". Yay for date nights in.
Tomorrow night is the triad date night and we're planning on Mexican food, then a drink at our new favorite dive bar, and sex. I'm not sure if that's the order of events, though. B says she's really concentrating on sex and booze.
I started planning the menu for our annual Valentine's party.
Here's my working list:
Cheese and Charcuterie
5 cheeses
Aged: Gouda, Sharp Cheddar, Gruyere.
Soft and creamy: Brie, Camembert, Epoisses, Burrata, Fresh Buffalo Mozzarella.
Crumbly: Goat and Feta Cheese.
Firm: Parmigiano Reggiano, Manchego, Gouda.
Smoked: Smoked Gouda, Provolone, and Cheddar.
Blue: Gorgonzola, Stilton, Roquefort.
This year cut the cheese.
marinated mozzarella balls
Mixed tray of charcuterie from Costco:
Prosciutto: Italian Dry Cured Ham
Sopressata: Italian Dry Salami
Mortadella: Italian Sausage
Dry Cured Salami: Made of beef or pork and mostly air dried - UW Provision
Olives - 3 types - make marinated olives
pickles
Crackers & Bread:
breadsticks and crusty French baguette
crackers, both GF and regular, seed crackers, water crackers
pork rinds
nuts: candied pecans or walnuts, Marcona almonds, pistachios, almonds
dried apricots, cranberries, banana chips
roasted red peppers, artichokes
spreads: honey, mustard, jam
dips or maybe soft cheese spreads like James bought at Xmas time
fruit: grapes, blueberries
Chocolate bar cut up
Fresh herbs: rosemary and thyme, and/or micro greens to fill in space and visually appeal
Maybe this????:
caprese/Greek salad skewers
carrot sticks
celery
cucumber
The meal:
Deviled eggs
Taco/fajita bar
Chicken Rio
Pulled pork
Hamburger taco meat
black beans
refried beans
avocado/guacamole (Costco)
cilantro
rice, reg. and cauliflower rice
shredded cabbage
shredded cheeses
diced tomatoes
onions
sliced black olives
street corn
jalapenos
grilled oiled red/green/yellow peppers
limes
sour cream
salsas
hard shells
tortillas
tortilla chips
IDEAS: squirt bottles for sour cream and taco sauce
Desserts:
2 Pavlovas - using keto recipe for the meringue
Trifle or Fruit Basket Cake
Cheesecake (keto)
Mocha Fluff with berries in little dessert dishes with tiny spoons
I will probably need to take a vacation day the day before the party so I can get all of this accomplished.