So Cal ENM male

[Hallpasstom]

My wife and I recently decided the ENM lifestyle was best for us. We have been married for almost 36 years and have done 3sms and swinging. We now want to give this a try. My question is, does anyone know where a 61yr old man can go to find like minded people? I’ve looked at dating sites but they are all scammer. Groups, clubs, get togethers? I’m in So Cal if anyone can offer help.

 

[Evie]

Fetlife tends to have poly meetups advertised in local areas. Or meetup.com

If you can't find it, create it

 

[Magdlyn]

You can also just google "polyamory [your town/closest city] and see if any meetups/munches are happening.