gratefulduck
New member
Hi all.
Not sure that I would consider myself 100% poly, at least not yet, but I have found myself lately with a good reason to learn a little more about it.
I've been seeing someone who's in a committed relationship for a little while now and we're both interested in moving things forward, but I have some reservations.
I was married for 7 years, but that fell apart mostly due to infidelities, which makes me kind of really anxious about entering into this relationship...
I see things from the perspective that I am a new element to a previously existing and working equation, and therefore I am responsible for learning the rules and adapting to the situation if it's something that I prefer, but the person I'm seeing is worried that the whole situation might end up being too triggering for me.
I suppose im just wondering about people's experiences in joining an existing poly relationship coming from a monogamous background.
Very interested in hearing some stories.
Thanks all!
Not sure that I would consider myself 100% poly, at least not yet, but I have found myself lately with a good reason to learn a little more about it.
I've been seeing someone who's in a committed relationship for a little while now and we're both interested in moving things forward, but I have some reservations.
I was married for 7 years, but that fell apart mostly due to infidelities, which makes me kind of really anxious about entering into this relationship...
I see things from the perspective that I am a new element to a previously existing and working equation, and therefore I am responsible for learning the rules and adapting to the situation if it's something that I prefer, but the person I'm seeing is worried that the whole situation might end up being too triggering for me.
I suppose im just wondering about people's experiences in joining an existing poly relationship coming from a monogamous background.
Very interested in hearing some stories.
Thanks all!