This is me... It's where I'm at

Today Infinity came to where i work. Felt like he was checking to be sure i was actually there, but he says he only came to bring me a drink. I dont know what to think. So much i do mees to think about though. He says i have 3 options 1) leave 2)give him another chance because he says he needs me or 3) stay and try to live as room mates. Told him im not making snap decisions and i will think before i make a decision and i dont know how long it will take.

For now im watching a thunderstorm while i sit and process things.
 
Infinity and I have decided to divorce. There has been a lit over the last few years and we decided this will be best. We agreed on all the terms and will speak to a lawyer tomorrow to try to start the process. We agree that we will work towards being friends with the ability to coparent our children. No hard feelings. We have had good times but we have hurt each other a lot and we want to move past that to be better parents for our kids.
 
Life is well... life. Im trying to adjust and figure things out. There have been some awkward moments as Infinity and i navigate the waters of divorce and co-parenting. We are remaining somewhat friendly with each other. We arent attacking each other or fighting. Its not all roses but its not all thorns either.
 
Well the divorce is final. Has been for about 3 weeks now. Still processing that. I never saw myself here, in this place, divorced and having to navigate co parenting with an ex. I still believe this was for the best. I have emotional swimgs, but who wouldn't. I have spent my entire adult life married to my now ex husband. Im having to learn a lot of new things and process feelings that are all new.
 
Give yourself time to feel, time to grieve. Take it one day at a time, and be kind to yourself.
 
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