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azulave

New member
...it was at that moment when i realized ...


This site is just what i have been looking for. Thanks All yous that make it happen.
I am definitely looking for community to chat and share with.

I am bi and poly. Finally i seem to be in a situation that has the potential to work.
And i am a little freaked out by that. Which is wierd. I know how not to make
it work. How do it when it works!? ;)

I have been dating Her six years in November. It has been wonderful, amazing
and challenging but we have grown from every opportunity and we have
come to realize we will have a connection that will always be there
regardless of whether we are having sex or not. We have tried the poly thing before and made many classic mistakes. I have been dating Him five months now and it just keeps getting sweeter. I met him not in my usual circle(s) and it was just supposed to be sex but it turns out we have a really comfortable and sweet connection that i am growing fonder of all the time. I think he is the first person i have dated that wasn't a friend or co-worker so it has been an interesting experience to make the concerted effort to get to know each other. The fascinating thing about him is that he was not into poly in any way until he got involved with me but he has taken to it like a duck to water. Even though he doesn't fully understand he is so supportive and just seems to have a almost instinctual nature when it comes to social situations. Which i am still learning how to navigate.

Her and i are transitioning from a DADT to her being more curious and
accepting of him in my life. Especially as time has shown a so far, wonderful
lack of drama. I can't imagine a scenario where the three of us would
hang out even though i think they would get along great but i am so
far good with where things are.

Her and mine re-entry into poly has been a wonderful energizing of our
relationship. After a nasty messy divorce she is finally ready to fully explore
poly. Yay, lucky me. I recently read both More Than Two and Game Changer.
Both excellent books. i have also read most of the other mainstays of poly.

Im in my early fifties, he is mid fifties and she is -this- close to fifty.
None of us live togther or have the intent to.

Hi all, i look forward to connecting with you
A--
 
Greetings azulave,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

Sounds like you have a really sweet relationship with both of your partners. It makes me glad to hear that. I hope Polyamory.com will be a resource for you to navigate any bumps along the way, and I'll bet other people will benefit from your wisdom too.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

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Welcome aboard!
 
I just have to say I love your heading for this thread :)

Arohanui,
Evie
 
Hi!

You're dating a Her and a Him. What gender are you, yourself? Thanks in advance for clearing that up.
 
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