Tinder? Not my style…


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I’m Zachary and I’m 30. I think I’ve only ever been in a monogamous relationship once in my life. My friends describe me as “Governed by the rules of the road.”, and while I think that’s a bit much I do love this edge of life I live on. I have seen 45 of the 50 US states and I currently reside on the east coast. I’m deeply philosophical, and driven by doing things differently. I’m a writer, and I’m hoping to have an education company organized with my friends with the next month. I teach about digital transformation in NGO space driven by AI and Agile agency. My goal is to develop curriculum that touches a generation of youth and young adults to empower them with the tools they need to contribute to the open source development community. The future is open.

Oops, did I just geek out? I’ve never had tinder. I don’t do this kind of thing. Why? Because I build relationships, not find ones that aren’t going to be… you know….poly.

And then I found you guys.


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Greetings Zachary,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

You seem to be a highly intelligent person, with a good sense of humor and a unique personality. Like you, I've never had Tinder. I did have OKCupid quite a while back, but I was not satisfied with it. Polyamory.com is a better way to go, you can build friendships here and then who knows, a friendship can blossom into something more. In the meantime, I hope you'll share some of your experiences with us, you are obviously not new to poly!

Glad you could join us.
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)


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