After re-reading an older thread on this forum, started by an OP who had been manipulating his [thankfully: ex-]gf; could NOT understand why she'd "dumped" him (after a series of her anxiety attacks caused by his shenanigans); and went into total denial when virtually
everyone who replied told him to get
his shit together...
I went
here
It occurs to me that this song can be taken in (at least) 2 ways:
a) The singer offers sarcastic advice to his loved-one in a bid to persuade her to open up:
"Don't answer me, stay on your island*
Don't let me in"
b) The singer (or his subconscious?) is warning the other that he [the singer] is in a mess, and (s)he [the admired-one] would be better off steering clear (or backing out):
"If you believe in the power of magic,
I can change your mind
[...]
We gave it up in a moment of madness
And threw it all away
Don't answer me, don't break the silence
Don't let me win."
* Compare with
“Every man’s an island”:
They say that “Every man’s an island”.
Well, every woman is the sea:
[...]
Some islands treat the sea with caution;
Some market its bounty and charm;
Many contaminate its waters:
See the profit, not the harm.
Some are fearful of its monsters:
Its deep dark secrets are a threat
To sense of order and “correctness”…
Some are just
scared of getting wet.
[the underlining is mine]