Who thinks dating apps/sites are a bust?

I've seen many times people saying they are on Fetlife but I never bothered looking it up since I'm 0% kinky, until somebody makes me discover I'm wrong ;P The only thing that I like that is near to a kink is to have long cuddle sessions with elements of tantra. Would I be able to find people who are into that on Fetlife? Although now I just thought about one kink I have but never had the chance to explore :)

But it's good to know that FL is more like a networking site. I should probably give it a try and explore what others like just in case I find something that sparks curiosity. Thanks for the info.
 
I've seen many times people saying they are on Fetlife but I never bothered looking it up since I'm 0% kinky, until somebody makes me discover I'm wrong ;P The only thing that I like that is near to a kink is to have long cuddle sessions with elements of tantra. Would I be able to find people who are into that on Fetlife?
Yes.
Although now I just thought about one kink I have but never had the chance to explore. :)

But it's good to know that FL is more like a networking site. I should probably give it a try and explore what others like, just in case I find something that sparks curiosity. Thanks for the info.
Yeah, things you can list as a kink or fetish on your profile vary from loving boobs to having sex. Let me go see. Some less "out there" suggestions are:

cuddles
flirting
foot massages
humor
intelligence
oral sex
polyamory
sapiosexuality
talking dirty
breast/nipple play
masturbation
multiple orgasms
vibrators
fingering
high heels
doggy style
etc.

Pretty mild, right? Of course, there are many more hardcore things people are into. But it's not all bondage and floggers there.

There is a huge polyamory contingent there, even though we know poly is not a kink at all, just loving more than one. (It doesn't even mean group sex.) There are hundreds of discussion groups for everything you can imagine. And it's much more polite and civilized than Reddit, imo. There are rules. Kinksters need rules, because safety and consent is so important.
 
Yeah, things you can list as a kink or fetish on your profile vary from loving boobs to having sex. Let me go see. Some less "out there" suggestions are:
Damn, I guess I'm kinky then :) I'll definitely have a look at it.

Exactly, I like that kinks requires rules and that might translates into people who can communicate like adults online.
 
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