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While Punk was here, I asked him if he had plans for New Year's Eve. He said he didn't. I told him miss pixi and I were invited to a party, but it was at a friend's place, and I don't know her well. I'd been to one party at her place last spring. She's a co-counselor at miss pixi's camp. She is very nice and friendly, but her parties are large, and composed of her age group, people in their 20s and early 30s. So if I went I'd only know a couple people... and I'd feel like the oddball old lady. Bleh. I am not big into parties on NYE anyway.

Yesterday miss p heard from her Dom/bf, who invited her to stay with him this week for 2 days and nights instead of their usual one evening and night. She requested it be Wednesday into Friday, and he agreed. He is off work all week. So! That takes care of her New Year's. I texted Punk to tell him he could be my New Year's date if he still wanted to. He didn't answer yet, but I am pretty sure he will be interested since he had no other plans. Even if he can't stay right til midnight, we can still have fun cosy time.

This will be a departure for miss p and I, to spend New Year's in the arms of our others. I've spent 4th of July and her birthday apart from her before, because of her summer travels, but not this holiday. She'll get her New Year's kiss when she gets home New Year's Day instead of at midnight!
 
Oh, I forgot to say that when Punk last visited, he brought me a present! It is a wood carving he made himself, a little plaque type thing, with engraving and inlay, with preserved dried leaves from his garden set on top and held in place with the polyurethane finish. I was so touched to get this surprise.
 
Had a major confusion about the NYE plan with Punk yesterday. Turns out he didn't understand I was inviting him to come here. And he thought that party I was invited to was Monday, for some reason, not Thursday. So when he got back to me in text yesterday, he first told me he had plans with 2 of his platonic female friends for NYE! After we figured out the confusion he prioritised me and told me he'd come. Whew!

I am finding out he loves to get dressed up. I guess he was looking forward to wearing a dashing suit when he was planning to go out with his friends. But our evening will be very casual (I am kind of hoping we will be naked for most of it, heh). So I told him of a nice restaurant in my town we could dress up and go to some time, so he can show off his designer suit. He liked that idea.

I guess he gets all his designer clothes at thrifts, like I like to do... He is far from wealthy, but has Brooks Bros, Ralph Lauren, Hugo Boss, etc., etc. This is kind of cool, since my ex h lives in jeans and flannels. Punk wears jeans and Ts when he visits me, but some of them are designer, lol.

And in a nice note, his mom was up and out of bed and went to Target yesterday, feeling stronger! She's a tough woman. It made him so happy.
 
Our NYE worked out so well. Miss Pixi went to her bf's place on Thursday and came home today. She had fun with him, her first time getting to stay over 2 nights, and it went fine.

And I had fun with Punk! So much fun. It was romantic. Punk carried in some firewood as soon as he got here, and built the fire. I lit candles, and we listened to music, and watched some videos, much Bing and Louis Armstrong and swing of that sort. We snuggled, we toasted marshmallows, we cracked jokes and told stories. And sex. Oh my god. We had so much sex. Starting the new year off with a bang for sure. I wore out his penis but he was a sport and gave me one more orgasm as the ball dropped in Times Square. Good omen for the year? I hope! hehe

I gave him a backrub too and he was so cute. He just melted. Our trust and bond seems to grow day by day.

Punk stayed til 1AM and then reluctantly tore himself away to go home for night duty with his mom. He could hardly stop kissing me goodbye. Gosh, I like this guy.

I had yesterday completely to myself, which was so nice after all the socializing over the holidays. I lazed around for hours, then finally got my ass up and took down all my Christmas decorations and the tree. It was a lot of work, because I have a ton of stuff I put around the house. It's always nice to get back to normal though. I did a new decorating scheme in the living room after i got the boxes out of here. Otherwise I didn't need to go out or run any errands or talk to anyone. Just chilled, did a little art photography, and had a peaceful time with the dog as my companion.

Miss p got home midday today and we filled each other in on our dates. Then we snuggled into bed for a nice nap together. Later, I made a healthy chicken and veggie stir fry for dinner, and then I got in touch with Punk and we arranged to have another date on Tuesday. :) He had spent part of today at a Bernie Sanders convention. He has worked on campaigns before and wants to get involved in this one. I hope he can! He didn't even get to the main room at the con, he was in overflow. But Bernie came into that room too, and gave a mini speech. Punk was right near him. So that sounded like a thrill. :) This evening he was going out with the 2 friends he ditched on New Years to be with me.

miss p and I watched a zombie movie set in Africa. Then I took a shower and we had some low key but yummy sex and snuggles.
 
Yesterday I brought up a topic with pixi, about how now we both have steady beaux, our lives are a bit different. I know we are both in NRE with the guys. I don't want us to neglect each other in any way. I don't want her to feel intruded upon if Punk continues visiting me two evenings a week. But she said she didn't mind him coming over at all, she likes him. And we don't neglect each other, even if we do often sit side by side in the living room, chatting our OSOs. lol

We still talk a lot, go on dates, see friends together, we shower together, have regular sex, I make an effort to insist on kinky stuff (she's too sub to often initiate sex or kink, so I have to take the lead there), we go shopping together, we support each others' life goals, etc., etc.

So even with these 2 new(ish) sexy men in our lives, I think we are doing fine as a couple. She's my darling tinker fairy, so smart and funny and inspiring. And she is so cute! I like when men check her out, like when we went to the brew pub the other day with one of our girl friends. She was rocking a bit of cleavage and her hair looked nice and she has these legs! Mmm.
 
I'm glad you and miss pixi are discussing how to keep your relationship strong. She seems like such a sweetie.

I envy your fireplace... we have one, but we aren't allowed to actually have fires in it.
 
Thanks! We really like fires and it was one of the things we hoped to find in a house in our price range, but didn't really think we would! We also have a fire bowl for outdoor fires in spring and fall.

OMG, y'all, another wonderful date with Punk last night. This just keeps getting better and better. We went out to the nice classy glam steakhouse for dinner to enjoy a chance to get dressed up and do something different. Punk looked so fine in his (thrift store) designer clothes, Lauren wool blazer, charcoal Prada shirt, narrow black tie, a cashmere pullover sweater, and these black and grey plaid wool pants that fit him like a glove. Like a glove, I say. He has a really nice rounded Italian ass, I don't think I mentioned that before.

Plaid pants sounds odd, but he really rocked them. He told me about the red plaid and blue and yellow plaid pants he used to wear as stage wear back during his musical career, with the zippers and straps. These pants were tame by comparison. lol He approved of my outfit too. I wore leopard print black and white leggings, studded Steve Madden black boots, and a black velour tunic, and loaded up on gold bangles and rings.

I took a few pix of him, plus a selfie of him and me.

So nice being pampered at the restaurant, fine food, good drinks, then coming home to take off our fancy duds and engage in rocking exquisite panting sex. 1 session, then coming out to the living room to listen to swing music. He wanted to dance. I knew he was a dancer, knew the moves. We danced in the kitchen since my living room is too small and full of furniture. Believe it or not, I've never had a partner who really knows how to dance! I've danced swing style, or old rock and roll style, with girlfriends and with my dad, I've hippie danced a little with my ex h and miss pixi, but never with a MAN who really knows how to dance! (I danced with Ginger at the drum circles, but we won't speak of that.) That led to more sex. I was like a rag doll when he was finally finished with me.

After he left I lolled on the couch and pixi told me I looked like an angel. Awww. She was busy working on projects most of the evening, but had taken a break to chat with me and Punk before we started dancing. (I think she has a crush on him. Understandable. The hotness!)
 
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You tell the smiliest stories nowadays. :D
Yay, you!
 
Thanks, YaH. I am having so much fun...

In other boy news, I've been chatting on OKC with a couple guys in their 20s. My ulterior motive is the MFM Punk wants to make happen for me. Last night he said again he'd like to help me fulfill that fantasy. I figured a young guy would be horny and open minded enough to be willing to try that, IF we click in person and things feel right. I've been talking to both these guys a couple of weeks, and we are about at the point of setting up dates.
 
I'm glad Punk is helping you feel so happy!

Hubby used to be a West Coast Swing instructor and amateur competitive dancer...when we were still going to events with the chat group, women would literally line up to dance with him, because he was often the only guy there who was both comfortable dancing and knew how to do it.

He tried to teach me at one point. After the fourth or fifth session of attempting, which included two paid classes, I gave up. Coordination is not my strong suit. (Which means I'm highly amused every time Woody and Mouse tell me they're going to talk me into joining their Morris Dancing troupe..)
 
I hate to stereotype, but my dad, who has Asperger's, was a great swing dancer. He and my mom really cut a rug, even at their 50th anniversary party! They were so cute.

Just scheduled Punk in for Saturday. Tomorrow I am going to see my granddaughter/daughter, Friday I sit for 3 cute kids, Saturday I get to be a naughty kinky girl. It's all about balance!

I gave pixi some sexin an hour ago, just in case she was feeling neglected. Turns out she was in the mood. Sweet!Previously, I asked her if she is getting a crush on Punk. I saw something in her eyes the last couple times he's been over... She said she has a "friend crush" on him, and it's nice to have a cute boy in the house. But nothing more. I said I kind of have a boundary there. (Because of Ginger and all...) She said she's not comfortable with "forever boundaries" but she understands and she's not interested in going there.
 
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Last night when Punk got here, I told him our itinerary was: sex, making dinner and eating with miss pixi, playing some board games with her too, and then more sex if he should so desire. He gave a thumbs up in advance to a 2nd sex session. My kinda guy!

Pixi was around... she had been invited to her bf/Master's, but she has an earache so didn't want to go. She hung out with us for dinner, and otherwise made herself scarce doing projects and playing video games.

Turns out we only played one game after dinner with her (Frog Juice) and then the dog was asking for another walk, so pixi took her out. Then Punk was rarin' to go for that 2nd sex session. So we went for it. So good, both times. He is so generous. He loves giving impact play as much as I like receiving, so we had a good dose of that as well. Bliss. Blissful fun and connection.

We also did more swing dancing in the kitchen, Cindie!

Then I finally convinced him to watch a movie with me. He is very picky about movies, but he loved my choice to share with him, one of my favorites. It is funny, with lots of music and dancing and a political message, Reefer Madness: the Movie Musical, a Showtime release. He laughed throughout and really appreciated the political message, being as he is a leftie political activist. I must have watched that movie a dozen times over the years, I never tire of it.

When the movie was over, it was 11:30. He'd gotten here at 5. He said his mom had been alone since 10:30 so he better get going. Gosh, I love having him in my life.

I've also been texting with Nick a bit, exchanging pix and new years wishes. I WISH he'd come by, that is what I wish. lol Oh well, I knew he would if he could. I'm doing fine with pixi and Punk, but a dash of Nick would be nice one of these fine days.

It's pouring rain here in Mass today. In the 50s. I am grateful it's not snow! I reckon we will get hit with that in February. But I hope not!
 
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So... two things happened after I wrote my last post. I woke up the next day to a text Nick had sent me at 6am, asking if i was an early riser. But by then it was 8 and when I wrote back he was losing his momentum and energy, having worked all night. So one more tease from Nick! He means well. At least I know the spirit is willing.

Then I found out from Punk that his mom was back in the hospital, from a systemic yeast infection brought on by the antibiotics she'd had from the pneumonia. Once again he was all verklempt. She was very ill. We'd already made plans to get together on Wednesday, but this was Monday. I said if he wanted some snuggles and distraction, he should come over the following day, Tuesday. So he took me up on it.

Yesterday, he got here early enough we were able to take my dog for a hike in daylight. I knew it was going to snow in the night so I really wanted to get her out for a good run. I'd never hiked with Punk before. Another first. :p We had fun, my dog is so cute running around off leash. There were some other dogs there in the woods and beach too. Punk is an animal lover and is always so nice to Dog. He calls her "Kid."

Meanwhile miss pixi still has the earache, jaw pain, infection, virus whatever. Ibuprofen rarely works for her so on the way home I stopped off for aspirin and whiskey. She was just making it out of bed when Punk and I walked in. I gave her her "meds" and we chatted a bit, then Punk and I went off for... our usual good great lovely exciting sexy time. He hadn't slept much the night before so he fell asleep in my arms after the athletics. I treasure that, since he can't do overnights. I didn't nod off since it's fun just to savor looking at his handsome face as he sleeps, feeling our arms and legs around each other all intimate and relaxed.

When we came out finally, miss p was cutely tipsy and feeling no pain, so we hung out a while til around 7 and she and I needed dinner. Punk had gotten a text from his dad after our hike that his mom had improved and was coming home the next day (today), and she even called him just before he left. He was all happy and relieved. What a roller coaster. Poor man. He was going to go do cleaning and laundry. His dad is just a wreck and isn't picking up after himself at all. :( I feel good doing what I can to give Punk some distraction in the midst of all this.

When he went to hang up with his mom, he said, "Love you, too." And I got a wee bit envious. We haven't said those words yet. I don't even know if I feel "in love." Sad to say, I am protecting my heart since the crappy ending of my relationship with Ginger. I am holding back a little. I don't want to have any expectations here. I mean, Punk's mom is dying. Who knows what his state of mind will be as things get worse and then she finally passes. I hope by the time she lets go, he will accept it as an end to her suffering.

But not to end on a sad note, tonight Punk and I and miss p, hopefully, if she feels up to it, are going to meet my friend K at a local brew pub for Trivia. We went last month and it was fun, and Punk was interested. :) Yay for him meeting a friend of mine! Punk's brain is full of "useless trivia," so we should do well!
 
I forgot to say that yesterday around noon I woke miss p with oral sex. She was still half asleep. I didn't know how sick she was. She responded nicely though and we had fun. Then she got some good sleep, since the pain hadn't let her sleep much in the night. Then after Punk left, she was feeling temporarily good from the aspirin and whisky, and she attacked me! So I had sex 3 times yesterday. :) Felt so nicely worn out, I don't even care if Punk and I have sex tonight, since we just have a pub date planned. He is getting here a little earlier than he needs to, to get to the pub in time... if he's in the mood, I won't say no, but I don't feel that stupid state of neediness I am almost always in. :rolleyes:
 
My pub date last week with Punk and K was fun. miss pixi was too sick to come, however. :( We needed her input for the trivia! It was nice to get to introduce Punk to K, they both told me separately that they liked each other.

Then I didn't see Punk over the weekend as I had set up a Sunday afternoon date with a new boy. But I got stood up! Ack. I hadn't remembered to make sure we had each others' numbers beforehand. But I sent it to him that morning. And I still didn't hear from him til around 6. Seems he was working, plowing a big snowstorm, and lost track of which day it was.

He asked if we could try again this weekend, but I am not really feeling it after all. The conversation we've had has not been all that interesting or frequent, and even if he's great in bed, and as hung as he says, if he's not entertaining vertically, I am not interested.

So, after the no show, I went home and got miss p and took her back to the same restaurant for a late lunch! Ha! She's been so sick, and just starting to feel better. She went to the dr and she has a sinus infection, got antibiotics. She was glad to go out for lunch. And I had fun too. We had delicious rare burgers.

Yesterday (Monday) evening, I did see Punk. It had been 5 whole days! He stayed from 5:30-11:30. Mmm, we just had our usual fantastic time. It was freezing out so we stayed in. Cuddling, talking, sexing, laughing. We watched SNL political youtubes, listened to music (Iggy Pop and Lou Reed and Bowie), played cards with miss p and had pizza with her too. Then more sex, in the kitchen. What an adorable man. He took so long to stop touching me and kissing me and get himself out the door. :)
 
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Your updates are so wonderful. Glad that things are going well, although sorry to hear how unwell miss pixi has been lately.
 
Thanks fuchka. She is feeling much better today, and we went antiquing and out for pho for dinner. This month marks our 7th year anniversary, so it was part of the celebration!
 
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