Mental Health

I've been thinking a lot about mental health issues over the past couple years.

Sometimes I wonder if the way we label these people doesn't just make it worse. I believe very strongly in the power of manifestation / law of attraction, and by that logic, the best way to make someone act crazy is to convince them they are crazy. It's like systematic gas-lighting.

Since the 60's, there's been an idea floating around that there's no such thing as "mental illness." I wouldn't go that far, as in the case of bipolar and schizophrenia... But I strongly suspect there too many clinical diagnoses of "Anxiety Disorder" and "Major Depressive Disorder" when, in my opinion, that brain is acting predictably and very "orderly" given the stimulation it's received. Maybe pills can be useful for getting them to a place where they're able to talk it out and re-wire their brains through psychotherapy, but for sure medication is over-prescribed as a be-all-end-all cure for mental illness. I see some of these "illnesses" as being perfectly reasonable and rational reactions to the lives people have lived, and the world we live in today -- disconnected from each other, constantly bombarded by reports of terrorism and Armageddon. Honestly, it's a miracle we're not all crazy!

I saw a really good documentary once about survivors of the psychiatric system... yes they had some mental health challenges, but going through the psych ward and being misdiagnosed, overmedicated, and generally treated like "diseases with a human host" instead of "humans who need help" made their mental health orders of magnitude worse.

I've been studying nonviolent communication pretty intensely over the past few months, and the psychologist who came up with that modality quit clinical practice in part because he didn't agree with the systematic labelling of "what people are" rather than "what they feel & need." I've also been studying a modality called Bioemotive Feedback more recently, which is a method of really getting in touch with your emotions and feelings, and finding things that were buried deep down and finally processing them and releasing the hold they have on your life. So much of how we behave and what we believe is related to coping mechanisms we developed during challenging or even traumatic times in our lives, and these became habit without us even realizing we'd been doing or thinking those things in the first place. A lot of "destructive behaviour" can be traced back to specific events or series of events, and the behaviours can be nipped in the bud by bringing the trauma to the surface and dealing with it directly. This applies to addictions, interpersonal behaviour, and self-destructive tendencies -- many of which are labelled as "diseases" by modern psychology.

I just don't know what to think anymore. It's so easy to sit on the sidelines with a fairly neurotypical brain and try to guess at what the experience is like for these people. The last thing I want to do is deny anyone's personal lived experience, and if someone tells me that they found relief and benefit from a clinical diagnosis and pharmaceutical treatment, then I'm not going to deny it or take that away from them. I fully understand that a depressed person cannot "just cheer up and stop being depressed" any more than a cancer patient can "just get over it and stop having cancer." But a Type II diabetic can reverse their disease with the right diet & lifestyle, and I'm convinced that a lot of "mental illness" can also be reversed with the right kind of non-pharmaceutical treatment -- beginning by removing the label of "you're sick" and replacing it with "you have the power to change this."

I pretty much have no respect for modern psychiatry. My mom has been in that system for the last 40 years and I'm not sure it's done her any good. She has all kinds of organ damage from the pills she was on, and her psychiatrist doesn't about that as long as she stays out of the psych ward. She had to flat-out refuse to keep taking lithium because she had diagnosed kidney failure, and even then he refuses to try any of the new medications that have come out in the past 10 years, just upped her Seroquel and called it a day. It's a total joke. She's scared to ask for someone else because they could be even worse -- he's considered one of the best psychiatrists in the province. Her previous doctor nearly killed her by overdosing pills that had her sleepwalking half-naked in the street. He was transferred to another region (not fired!) when he failed to answer his pager while on-call and his patient killed herself.

I bookmarked a Mooji meditation and got her into yoga, and I think those have had more benefit on her overall mental health than all the pills these morons have shoved down her throat. And more importantly, this diagnosis has her convinced it's hopeless and there's nothing she can do to improve her mental health, so she doesn't even try. I'm not saying she could cure her bipolar with some yoga and chanting ohm -- I'm not a moron -- but the self-defeating attitude she has a result of the diagnosis surely isn't doing her any good.
 
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I've done the prozac thing.
I've done the 5htp thing (much more effective overall for the physical symptoms).
And I've done the meditation thing.

Meditation wins hands down when doing active trance (not mindfulness or transcendental). The type meditation I've done means that the same issues simply will not come back, and many others fall away as a by-product. It's quite Jungian. I generally don't tell people about it because it's simply too woo-woo for most to feel comfortable with. So many people believe the only cure is science. And I'm a huge fan of science and chemistry. Hell, when I was a teenager I want to be a neurochemist! I just don't believe it's the be all and end all these days. I've had too much success elsewhere.
 
I've done the prozac thing.
I've done the 5htp thing (much more effective overall for the physical symptoms).
And I've done the meditation thing.

Meditation wins hands down when doing active trance (not mindfulness or transcendental). The type meditation I've done means that the same issues simply will not come back, and many others fall away as a by-product. It's quite Jungian. I generally don't tell people about it because it's simply too woo-woo for most to feel comfortable with. So many people believe the only cure is science. And I'm a huge fan of science and chemistry. Hell, when I was a teenager I want to be a neurochemist! I just don't believe it's the be all and end all these days. I've had too much success elsewhere.


What's "active trance"? How's it different from mindfulness, etc.?
 
Why Do People Mistake Narcissism for High Self-Esteem?

I didn't read the article, but want to say that when we are in the presence of real self-esteem, it feels good. We don't need to read signs or evaluate much more than what our own gut is (likely rather loudly) communicating. People who truly feel good about themselves feel good to be around.
 
I didn't read the article, but want to say that when we are in the presence of real self-esteem, it feels good. We don't need to read signs or evaluate much more than what our own gut is (likely rather loudly) communicating. People who truly feel good about themselves feel good to be around.

I agree with this. But with a caveat.

That "gut" sensitivity can be blocked or obscured by having experienced a lot of malattunement and misattunement. Those who were fortunate enough to experience a lot of good attunement from / with parents and teachers and peers (and such) in childhood and adolescence are not likely to have this "gut" sensitivity go offline. Those who had less such sensitive attunement at this crucial early period will probably have to painstakingly reconnect with this "gut" sensitivity of which you are speaking.

To some extent, it is those people who feel good about themselves who feel good (in their gut) around others who have genuine self-esteem. When we feel basically good about ourselves we tend to trust and open to our own experience -- including what our gut has to say. Feeling good about ourselves is a symptom of good self-attunement, and self-attunement is supported and nurtured by the presence of parents and other care-givers who, themselves, had good self-attunement ... or recovered that capacity after it had been more-or-less lost.

Narcissists can't self-attune, nor attune sincerely with others. But they can appear to be doing so, unless that gut sensitivity to which you speak is fully online. Our capacity to attune to self and other emerges smoothly and naturally--osmotically-- where it is sufficiently present in the relational field of our childhood and adolescence. It provides us with a kind of inner compass which always points true North, so we have our bearings. Malattunement and misattunement experiences, if frequent and ongoing, essentially break our inner compass and we can't find our bearings. Our sense of direction is screwed up.

I was recently (as in recent years) suckered by a narcissist, whom I had thought was my friend. I was being played, manipulated. My gut wasn't revealing what was going on ... because my "instrument" needed tuning. My gut wasn't fully online. But I'm getting better every day and my natural "gut instincts" are coming online.

Those with an interest in this whole line of inquiry might enjoy reading Judith Blackstone's latest book, Trauma and the Unbound Body: The Healing Power of Fundamental Consciousness https://realizationprocess.org/books-and-cds/ In this book, Blackstone addresses this topic of attunement and malattunement in context with relational trauma. She explains why and how what I called our "inner compass" can go out of whack, and offers a lot of insight into how we can bring it back online. I love the way she includes the body in this process. It's not all in our heads or brains -- but in our bodies (including the gut) that we learn and heal and grow.

Audio: Tami Simon interviews with Judith Blackstone: https://www.soundstrue.com/store/judith-blackstone-5403.html
 
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Not sure if you've read my posts about my childhood, River, but I did not come from a feathered nest. It was pretty brutal, actually. Accurate intuition is not the purview of the lucky few who fell from a cloud into a soft cradle of love, it is the birthright of every human. Perhaps some are better able than others to listen to their intuition (gut,) but we all have it and it's more accessible than is popularly considered. Even those of us who were literally beaten down have reliable intuition when we listen, when we listen. It's not about working years to tune ourselves out of crappy childhood programming, it's about listening to what is and what has always been there.

I know you love these rabbit hole discussions, so I'll just leave my comments where they are. Namaste, bro. :)
 
What's "active trance"? How's it different from mindfulness, etc.?

It's basically creating an inner landscape, kinda like a dream, and using it as a platform to discover and interview different parts of the psyche.
 
Borerline Personality Disorder is something very serious and shouldn't be ignored. I don't have any exparience but I study psychology and you can find a lof of useful and iferesting informations here: https://fherehab.com/pd/signs-of-bpd/. You can help your friend find herself againg and pass this hard time. Feelings of anger or sadness at times when extreme responses aren’t appropriate or even elevated levels of paranoia or jealousy during benign interactions are the first signs. If she has any of this signs she should better see a specialist asap.
 
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