And from what I'm told it's mostly not worth it for the guy either so practically not worth doing. I've alluded to a change in Artist and I's sex life about... a year and a half ago now, maybe? I could find the date but I'm not going to right this second. Anyway he and I didn't do oral for years in either direction, past a few experimental times, because his then-boundaries of his relationship included a fairly strict set of sexual health agreements. Obviously it wasn't a *problem*, but definitely a thing I wished wasn't the case. So fixing that (for all acts) was a really really lovely change. (He was snipped back in his early 20's so that was never a concern.)I like going without condoms for the ease of going between different sex acts, vaginal and oral. I hate oral with a condom, yuck, the latex tastes terrible.
Amusingly Knight and I still mostly use condoms for vaginal anyway - I can't tolerate hormonal birth control, and he hasn't gotten snipped yet, so there we are. :: Ironically Joan has had her tubes out and thus they don't use condoms, so it's one more spot at which we aren't each other's primary sexual partner in some ways.