Nowhereman
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Hi all! I'm a Ukrainian who moved to Israel 2.5 years ago. But "moved to" is just "a good word". More correct is to say I'd stuck here. I planned to look around for 3-4 months. But then lockdown. Then news from Ukraine about the new government completely losing the battle with covid. Then the war. And here I am - accepting the fact I live in Israel for an indefinite time (maybe forever).
Don't get me wrong. If I hadn't had severe health issues, I'd be on the front line in Ukraine not only in 2022 - but starting from 2014. But with these issues, I'd make more problems than help there.
I'm 45 (almost 46) now. I first heard about polyamory from my two young female friends who were together as a couple in 2015 - they proposed to me to become their common boyfriend and live together. It seemed weird - my only previous relationship was a long-time monogamous marriage (no kids, though). But at the same time, I felt happy - I'd have feelings for both of them. If they proposed instead to choose one of them to be a couple, I'd refuse because I couldn't choose. We lived for happy 19 months in our open triad.
Since then, I've understood I was polyamorous for my whole life - and didn't have monogamous relationships anymore. Most of my relationships were open polycules - but it's a long story.
So, now I live lonely in Hadera, Israel. I don't seek a new relationship now. But if there're other people from Israel - I'd like you to PM me. And from different parts of the world - feel free to contact me too, even though we can communicate only virtually.
Don't get me wrong. If I hadn't had severe health issues, I'd be on the front line in Ukraine not only in 2022 - but starting from 2014. But with these issues, I'd make more problems than help there.
I'm 45 (almost 46) now. I first heard about polyamory from my two young female friends who were together as a couple in 2015 - they proposed to me to become their common boyfriend and live together. It seemed weird - my only previous relationship was a long-time monogamous marriage (no kids, though). But at the same time, I felt happy - I'd have feelings for both of them. If they proposed instead to choose one of them to be a couple, I'd refuse because I couldn't choose. We lived for happy 19 months in our open triad.
Since then, I've understood I was polyamorous for my whole life - and didn't have monogamous relationships anymore. Most of my relationships were open polycules - but it's a long story.
So, now I live lonely in Hadera, Israel. I don't seek a new relationship now. But if there're other people from Israel - I'd like you to PM me. And from different parts of the world - feel free to contact me too, even though we can communicate only virtually.
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