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New to this site. Names Opey. My husband of 15 yrs decided to walk back into my life so here we are starting fresh. Back into the lifestyle. Little more trauma but also new wisdom. I’m a cuckqueen. It’s awful but it’s my thing. Moved to Kansas City MO, you would think it was easy to find our people here but it’s not.. women get intimidated by me therefore they go out of there way to not talk to my husband.🙄😂
 
Welcome!

I like to go for the humor option when presented so I’m going to channel Chandler Bing and just ask

“Who hurt you?”

Although I would like to ask, in seriousness, is the cuckolding a necessary part of the poly aspect of your relationship? Poly doesn’t necessarily even include sex, so it might be easier to assuage the nerves of potential partners if you can assure them that big intimidating sex stuff isn’t the whole point, just the erotic icing. But idk, some folk have specific requirements when opening a relationship and maybe this was yours.
 
Greetings Opey,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

There's nothing wrong with being a cuckquean, as long as all involved parties consent to that arrangement. I hope you have better luck going forward in terms of finding that special someone that can join your family. Let us know if you have any questions.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

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Welcome aboard!
 
Welcome!

I like to go for the humor option when presented so I’m going to channel Chandler Bing and just ask

“Who hurt you?”

Although I would like to ask, in seriousness, is the cuckolding a necessary part of the poly aspect of your relationship? Poly doesn’t necessarily even include sex, so it might be easier to assuage the nerves of potential partners if you can assure them that big intimidating sex stuff isn’t the whole point, just the erotic icing. But idk, some folk have specific requirements when opening a relationship and maybe this was yours.
No, the “giving up on trying to keep him loyal” is the poly part. Haha. Then it kinda grew on me
 
No, the “giving up on trying to keep him loyal” is the poly part. Haha. Then it kinda grew on me
Ok, but answer some more questions! Are you poly? Do you require his partners to be sexually intimate with you? I want detaaaaaails
 
New to this site. Names Opey. My husband of 15 yrs decided to walk back into my life so here we are starting fresh. Back into the lifestyle. Little more trauma but also new wisdom. I’m a cuckqueen. It’s awful but it’s my thing. Moved to Kansas City MO, you would think it was easy to find our people here but it’s not.. women get intimidated by me therefore they go out of there way to not talk to my husband.🙄😂
You say you had a hard time "keeping him loyal," but now that he is trying to date with your consent, are other women less interested, knowing he is in an open relationship and not cheating on you?
 
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