Recent content by Elie

I know the title is crude but I cant dance around the issue I am having... Blowjobs. I don't know if it is okay to talk about this here or if I need to censor the details. If so, let me know, and I will edit out the gritty details. Ok, where do I start? My husband and I got in an argument...

Millhuas, If you are around can you provide an update on the situation?

Thank you for all of the advice. And to the men who private messaged me, I appreciate your honesty and I am sorry you did not feel safe posting your perspectives and preferences on the forum board. If anyone else wants to share opinions in private message I promise I wont bite and conversations...

I have been reading about FLR relationships and I think it sounds really awesome. I want to hear from all of you. Ladies, do you take a lead role in your relationships? Guys, do any of you submit to your partners? For the unintimated I will copy and paste some basic information. These...

Can you explain why it is acceptable to have conversations about penis size on this website but is unacceptable to have a conversation about vagina tightness? Because it feels like a double standard to me. I only got defensive because of the suggestion that I am racist.

I do feel worse after reading your post but at least you are honest. I just don’t understand how men can be so superficial. I am not racist okay! I was just curious if the rumors were true so I asked my husband out of curiosity. It’s not like I created the stereotype and it’s private...

Thank you for the kind response. I am the one who asked him about it. I know that was a mistake I see that now. His new girlfriend is Asian and I know the rumors so I asked if it was true. I know how ridiculous that sounds now, I did not think the answer would bother me so much. Now that I...

I really do hate this poly thing sometimes. My husband has a new someone in his life, a young woman 10 years younger than myself. I found out that she is very tight between the legs, the most he has ever experienced. I know I am being silly about this but I cannot escape the fear that my...

I have read through all of the replies (even though most of them weren’t very nice, I appreciate the responses). I am more concerned about my husband being seduced and falling for some young bimbo than I am about the money. But if you want to talk about money, Brad has decided that he doesn’t...

I can see how you are all making me seem unreasonable. Brad has always taken care of me financially and has not ever been greedy in any way with his money. He has funded my classes, hobbies, and vacations (including friends) before we were poly. It feels like now that Mike has come along...

My husband (Brad) 35, and I (34) have been Married for 10 years. When we got married Brad was a very energetic and confident man, he was also very healthy and fit. The first 5yrs of our marriage it feels like we had sex multiple times per day. And after our first kid things just king of...