ModeMuse's latest activity
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MModeMuse reacted to nks's post in the thread Unsolvable puzzle? (Metamour hate and poly hell issues). with
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Hi! Polyamory mixed in with sexual orientation issues can complicate things. I can see that you are really trying to solve the... -
MYou should probably point out the age difference, as it surely doesn't help :( I know it's in your signature, but not in the post, that...
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MSo it rained the first day of RenFest Southern Maryland, but I beat my record and had my highest grossing show. I can’t believe that...
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MPuck is back in Aotearoa NZ today! I pick him up from the airport in just a couple of hours. I'm so fucking delighted he's able to move...
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MSo my local show today was rescheduled for later on in the summer, but it will be on a date when I have other things scheduled. The...
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MModeMuse reacted to Magdlyn's post in the thread Advice about red flags in a very specific poly situation with Like.
I, and many, if not most, polyamorous people refuse to date someone who is cheating on another partner or partners. Period. One of the...
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MThanks! I’m trying! My body seems to be going back and forth / I’ve made a lot of positive strides in recovery, but I still have days...
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MModeMuse reacted to Tinwen's post in the thread Sudden changes in agreements - leading to an ultimatum with Like.
I don't like this whole mix. Addiction, cheating, ultimatum. No wonder you want him to cut off his past lovers and be a better person...
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MModeMuse reacted to LoveBunny's post in the thread My fiance wants to share me with other man knowing I am not into that, and knowing that I just don't want to be touched by other man with Like.
Leave that man. He is not a protector, not a friend. He showed you who he is, which he is someone who will ignore your need for safety...
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MDear all, this blog has now been going for ten years, starting March 2016. I will be wrapping it up and making a new intro very soon...
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MModeMuse reacted to kdt26417's post in the thread Is privacy too much to ask for cohabitation? with Like.
Hello For3mber, I'm with you, knocking before entering should be the least I should be able to expect, as a human being. Sure it may be...
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MModeMuse reacted to Evie's post in the thread Is privacy too much to ask for cohabitation? with Like.
In my experience, in a poly context then privacy can be even more important. For example, you may be in a conversation with one partner...
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MModeMuse reacted to GalaGirl's post in the thread Is privacy too much to ask for cohabitation? with Like.
My father acted like that and would shout that it was HIS house and we were HIS kids so we had to do what HE said. Some parents do not...
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MModeMuse reacted to Tinwen's post in the thread Small-town ENM: balancing ex (co-parent) and new partner with Like.
I'm sorry, I should not have assumed that on a poly board. I understand the intricacies of old vs. new. But your description of moving...
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MModeMuse reacted to Tinwen's post in the thread Small-town ENM: balancing ex (co-parent) and new partner with Like.
Actually, I think you don't take full responsibility yet. Your responsibility is to make a decision. You've been back and forth with...