Passing Off (Remaining Lovers Forever)

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polyamory457

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So, some couples get tired of one another and to satisfy the gods & goddesses they must understand the method of passing their loved ones onto their next lover. The following method was used by 23 polyamorous, bi-couples -13 of those couples remarried in 5-11 years!


The Pass?



"The Pass" is when a couple pass-on great blessings to their partner. Let me explain.



Woman#A has been dating Man#1 though wants to date Man#2.



So, the ceremony goes as such Man#1 & Woman#A invite Man#2 (just the three of them alone) over so they both can share his d*ck (bl*wjob). Upon finishing, Woman#A rides off into the sunset with Man#2 as a new friendship, love interest, and companion -whereas Man#1 & Woman#A are neither bitter nor heartbroken about the breakup.



Important Details?



Couples must know this....



Leiscerbettian (gay man)


->spell backwards, you see an imaginary male spirit.



Leiscerbette (imaginary city)


->spell backwards, you see an imaginary male spirit.



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Lesbosettian (gay woman)


->spell backwards, you see an imaginary female spirit.



Lesbosette (imaginary city)


->spell backwards, you see an imaginary female spirit.



Note: "ette" can sound like "edie [sedgewick]" or "eddy [murph*y]"



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Long live the LGBT DREAM! And those words that start with L and end with N 😛


always practice safe sex...
 
This reminds me of one of those chain emails from yesteryear.

The funny thing is: I've heard of how having physical rituals can help abstract things such as breakups feel more tangible and easier to emotionally grasp. That being said, not sure how much a two-person blowjob would do for healing heartbreak. YMMV? 😅
 
Is this a real thing that’s now in practice?

I don’t get the “passing off“ part. It’s just a more involved farewell blowjob. Is there some expectation on who’s going to take the load at the end, or is a flip-for-it type thing? Is there a ceremonial structure to this?
 
Seems to me the whole point of polyamory is you don't have to break up with one lover in order to take up with another lover. The Pass, as polyamory457 calls it, sounds more like serial monogamy, to me, than it does polyamory. There's just a one-time setup where there's three people, and even then it's just about sex as far as I can tell, no romance. I shouldn't say there's anything wrong with it though, if it's done with the consent of all three people then they are good to go.
 
kdt26417 said:
Seems to me the whole point of polyamory is you don't have to break up with one lover in order to take up with another lover.
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I think what the OP is referencing is when poly has run its course in those cases… where preference has won out.

kdt26417 said:
The Pass, as polyamory457 calls it, sounds more like serial monogamy, to me, than it does polyamory.
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It’s called "shelf life." As many here have stated, every relationship has it. In fact, I think Gala introduced me to this concept.

kdt26417 said:
There's just a one-time setup where there's three people, and even then it's just about sex as far as I can tell, no romance. I shouldn't say there's anything wrong with it though, if it's done with the consent of all three people then they are good to go.
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As explained, I think there might be some romance and nostalgia in this passing of the torch, so to speak. I’d hope some words or pageantry were invoked in the send-off.
 
Anyone else remember a scene from Star Trek Deep Space Nine where Lita and Bashir break up by sleeping with other people on Risa and then part amicably?

There’s a casual theory floating around that this was an idea concocted by one of Lita’s ex-boyfriends…
 
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