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Thank you, you’re right it’s not meant to solve the problem. I was just going to research so I could understand a little bit better and when I research it, it just shows Jealousy so I wanted to know if there was a legitimate term for it.

Thanks Kevin you always seem to have good accurate answers for me. Still learning terms, so that’s why I asked if there was a specific thing for that..

Well, I had a boyfriend and then my husband and his I guess Metamor or his partner caused some problems for me and it caused my boyfriend to leave me two days ago. because they couldn’t get their shit together which made it so I couldn’t get mine together I guess, then I had to fix a problem...

Is there a term for when you get jealous that your primary has partners and you don’t have any? Which therefore make me Jealous /envious….

Ok sorry

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Hi I live in Washington State and am looking for an emotional relationship/connection…maybe more later 😁 I’m married with kids and have recently (today) just became open again. Im still new and have a lot to learn and hopefully someone who can tech as well!

Yeah, we talked to a therapist. It’s going well. I think it’s more or less just now. He needs to learn how to be a good hinge partner and as far as the communication was, it was no communication period. And I know expressed to him that if we open up, he needs to really work on the hinge partner...

We r closed currently because he wasn’t re assuring me that I was his wife/primary and he was more about her and I felt left out. He wants both but the is a sex with her issue that’s been going on and it’s not something I want to deal with and he is a bit scared as well. His emotional connection...

Personally, I like to have emotional connections before sex as well. I would like to have more than just emotional connection but emotional connection first would be helpful. I haven’t found guys that want emotional they just want sex. It’s rare I’ve put in profiles I want emotional and sex but...

I think it would be better if he could have his feelings for her out in the open as poly rather then hide them in a monogamous relationship. Cuz I know he loves/cares for her but physically there’s no connection.I can see it’s painful and hard for him to try and hide the feelings. And I think I...

Thank u that helps me a lot!

Lots of questions lol. He doesn’t have much in common with her. It’s all emotional stuff with them. He broke my trust by saying he wouldn’t talk to her for 4 days, till we talked to a counselor. But then he emailed her 2x behind my back in those 4 days. I know he loves me more than life, but...

I’ve never been able to find someone (a guy) who wants emotional.

Also I’m currently closed cuz of this problem. We were super new and we were trying but this women ruined it and then bashed me publicly. So it’s hard. I know my husband loves her. He “says” they are just friends. But I know he wants it to be more and so does she. So I don’t actually believe...

I’m super new to potential poly. I’ve tried it. I am currently closed but trying to maybe re-open. But is there such a thing as emotional-only poly?

I believe it’s his responsibility to reassure me that I’m the primary and she is not. That is what I believe, that was supposed to be said in my post. I don’t need her to reassure me at all. But he doesn’t want to help me be reassured, other then just believe what he says. But currently I don’t...

How does one deal with “threatening” in the relationship between their primary and the primary’s partner? I feel like she’s taking him away mentally and emotionally and I don’t feel loved or cared about at all. My primary is so focused on her and her feelings. Mine don’t matter (is how I feel)...

Thanks u and Kevin have been awesome!

Nobody wants HSV 2 and it’s not controlling to say that I don’t want to get it. Lol I didn’t actively look for a partner with it, and so I was well within my rights to say I’m not having sex with u unless I know for sure ur clean after seeing her. It’s a boundary. Doesn’t matter anymore we r...